Cass said:
if has a reaction to something, will the epi pen put everything right or will he still need to get to a hospital?
An epi-pen contains epinephrine which is adrenaline. It helps keep the allergic person alive until they get to the hospital. It doesn't stop the immune system's reaction.
We are just back from a week at WDW with our DS who has a peanut allergy and a watermelon allergy. Disney is the best place to go if you have a food allergy! That said, it isn't perfectly peanut free. You'll see a lot of peanuts around (Smucker's uncrustables are fairly common, as are bags of peanuts in hotel fast food shops, etc.) And I couldn't find any boxed candies or cookies to take home that weren't "may contain peanuts".
Our son rarely ate desserts this trip because all the chefs were concerned about possible cross contamination in the bakeries. While I did call each restaurant 7 days before our priority seating and talked to the chef, there wasn't any special preparations made for him. They were very busy while we were there (Christmas time), so no offers were made to make special dishes in the kitchen, as they have done for us in the past. The chefs just told us what to avoid. If your heart (and your son's tastebuds!) are set on having dessert, you may want to special order safe things before you go. We found having a bag of treats (tootsie rolls and rolos) worked for our son.
Disney official policy allows those with medical conditions such as food allergy to bring their own food into the parks. Noone has ever questioned our epis, either. We called Nestle on our cell phone from a cart at MGM and were comfortable enough with their cleaning procedures that DS ate a Mickey bar.
This trip we ate at:
Chef Mickey's
Kona Cafe (3x)
Cosmic Ray's
Casey's
Flying Fish
Olivia's
We also ate at Electric Umbrella, but they were CLUELESS about food allergy. I can't recommend you go there.
If you are new to peanut allergy, there are two very good sites to go to for information:
www.foodallergy.org which is the Food Allergy & Anaphylaxis Network (the people who helped sponsor the new food labelling law in the U.S.) and also
www.peanutallergy.com (which has a Travel board with very good Disney restaurant tips).
Good luck! Message me if you want to talk.