We are big on driving- we don't have a lot of extra cash to fly and we really like the convience of packing everything that we need and not choosing to leave anything behind or having to rent equiptment for the baby at our destination.
A great thing about driving is the trip itself - we stop and take pictures at the first rest stop in each state in front of the state welcome sign. We enjoy playing road games like I Spy or games like car tag/farm animal/ billboard advertisements food names bingo and so on... . The boys learned how to navigate with maps. The have fun telling us how many miles to "X" or we should be at "Y" by whatever time they calculate. The boys have learned all about driving, road hazards, map reading and navigating through these trips. You might be surprised at the conversations and subjects that get brought up during trips like "Why are there so many crosses on the mountain tops in the Carolinas and in the Virginias? What is a piggy-backed truck and why are they dangerous? Do people really live in those little shanty houses? " Our trips have been quite educating sometimes with the things that the kids hear and see and ask about.
AND, we are big on just enjoying life itself

-- if we see signs for something interesting then we stop- we have stoped for ice cream/dairy factory tours with free icecream cones at the end of the tour- mmm yummy. We have visited Amish/ Minnonite farm homes to buy their fresh breads/baked goods that they sell to the public- still warm and melty from the ovens- it's fun to see how other people/cultures live-- when they have extra baked goods they put signs out by the road. We've enjoyed a fresh, just picked, still warm from the sun watermelon from a farmer in South Georgia- that was the best watermelon that we've ever had. We also picked fresh strawberries from a farm in Pa. and snacked on them during our trip. There are so many things to see and do on a road trip.

We know we are getting close to Florida when we start to see signs advertising "live baby alligator"

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Road trips can be lots of fun but they can also be long drawn out ordeals if there's trouble with the car or the kids are motion sick. I prefer driving to flying for so many reasons- we might fly someday when the boys only need a book to keep them busy and can carry their own luggage but for now we are drivers for sure.
We take road trips up to Erie Pa. and New York ( Jamestown ) from Atlanta Ga. and it takes about 18 hours one way with our kids. We head up through S. Carolina, N. Car., Virginia, West Virginia, Maryland, Pa.and finally NY. then back down through Ohio, Kentucky, Tenn then Ga.
A few words of advice - trust me on this

- take a portable DVD player if you have one- it makes it so easy to say- "we'll be at the hotel or lunch or "whatever" by the end of your movie". My oldest sons don't use the player as much now but it has been a life saver when we have been stuck in traffic or when they're just bored out of their minds from driving for hours

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We take 30 to 40 min. breaks

about every 2 to 3 hours to let the kids run and more importantly let the little ones out of their car seats since they are so restricted when in them. We always take a good long dinner at some place like Cracker Barrel to stretch our legs and get some shopping done and play checkers with each child. We usually pack lunches and have fast food sometimes for bkfs.
Our big boys each get a gallon size ziplock baggie with their name written on it. I fill it with individual snack sized ziplock baggies with

: lemon drops, cinnamon hearts, sour patch kids, gummy worms, pretzel sticks, popcorn, pringles individual snack packs, cheeze/ peanutbutter crackers, and trail mix ( peanuts, raisens, M&m's mixed ). - I do not pack chocolate or gum as these things tend to get lost and melt all over the seats.
I freeze their juice boxes and put them in a small 6 can, soft-sided cooler and we always enourage bottled water for the road. I know that everyone has a fair share and there is no fighting

over who ate the last whatever because each child is in charge of his own bag and decides how much and when to eat out of it. Also, they know that they have to make the bag last for the whole trip -on the way there, at the resort and on the way home- so they are limited on how much junk they get on the trip.
Each child is allowed to pack a small backpack full of toys, game players, videos, washable markers, paper and so on. They are each responsible to keep their "stuff" in their bags when not in use and they also put their snack bags in the packs so they can just carry them with us to the rooms and resort checkins.
Also, the trip pictures taken by the kids with their own disposable cameras are always good for a great laugh. Some of the pictures that we have come home with are funny - like the time that my middle son was 4 years old and the whole roll of film was of the restrooms, food and "shoes"?? that he saw from his level of the world and decided to take pics of. He also had pics of the back of our heads and our bottoms because he said that is all he ever gets to see in the car and while we are walking because we told him to stay close and stay behind us when we visited places on the trip.
Hope you can use some of this information for a great trip if you choose to drive

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