Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde visit WDW: A horrifying Sept 11' TR: Final Update 10/11 #137

I must have posted as you were adding the second part.

I totally agree with you about spending time apart. I will have to remember that when our next trip comes around. I am thinking DH will just come to the parks in the morning for EMH and then by noon he can head back to the resort to watch tv or whatever it is that he wants to do.

The cabins sound great. I have always wanted to stay there and it seems like there is so much to do. I don't think you will be able to stick with your choice for 8 months though so I doubt we'll be hearing about them on your next trip report.
 
Huh. Who'd have thunk it?

So, as the antithesis of everything that was said within the FIRST 24 hours of arriving at WDW, I'll leave you with quotes from the LAST 24 hours of our trip and comments that he has made, at least every other day since we've been home the past couple of weeks.

"I've had the best time of my life."

"I love it here, I can't wait to come back."

"I wish I was lounging at Disney right now."

"When are we going to go back to Disney?"

"Better put this change in your piggy bank for Disney World!"

"I had such a great time with you guys."


So, dear readers, as the song goes, now it's time to say goodbye. For now...






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Oh Casey, all I have to say is....

FAN-flippin-TABULOUS :yay: So happy he turned around, too bad it was the last day, but now you all can go back. He loved it even without POTC or HM :love: I look forward to watching your planning (and RCing) for Kassidy's birthday trip....I sure hope DH can make the trip :goodvibes
 
Love it!!!! So glad you're going back... but as of now, I have no faith that you'll be at the cabins :laughing: We go in May and it's getting busier and busier.... so no worries... take the birthday trip!!

I'm glad you have Dr. Jekyll back..... Mr. Hyde is visiting at my house because I'm trying to budget and he wants to splurge with $ I dont' have :laughing:

Loved the report!! Guess I'll have one pretty soon!!
 
Aww, sad that it's over but so happy that you got him converted!!!

My dh wasn't excited AT ALL about Disney. He was happy that our kids were going to get to go but he didn't want to hear anything about - said he'd prefer to be surprised (yeah, right) and said he would get excited when his booty hit the airplane seat.

For us, going to Vero Beach was the ticket. He and I both Love, Love, Loved it. It was the "relaxing" portion of the trip because after that it was strictly commando and he did great and is the reason we are going back in January:)
 

Hi there fellow sister married to Mr.Hyde!:wave2:

We are going on our first ever trip to wdw in December:eek: I am so glad your did the TR we fellow sisters need all the help we can get, when you said " are you just wandering aimlessly" I just flipped out a fellow sister.:yay: Some DH's are nasty, or jerks....or well you know __wipes all the time and the spouse can control situations but with a Hyde ....always lurking and ready to pounce, or happy and loving.. talk about emotional rollercoaster.:sad2: I have started throwing the bipolar statement out there when I have had enough Jekyll/Hyde and ol Hyde will retreat.:lmao: I can't believe I'm a newbie taking a J/H to WDW.......I have lost my mind:scared1:
 
So happy for you that your husband ended up truly enjoying Disney. Maybe it was good that it wasn't too long of a trip. That way, he learned stuff about Disney & you learned things about him & Disney. Sounds like y'all had a truly magical vacation ending!

And :woohoo: for your next trip! I think that's great that y'all are going for your daughter's bday. I would love to do that for my son one year. Hopefully, the next trip will be even more magical for all 3 of y'all & not include "the fight". :laughing:
 
Yeah, we went to the first party on Sept 13th, and it was way crowded. We spent about 45 minutes to get pictures with the 7 dwarfs. Most rides were walk-ons because the lines were insane.

We ended up with extra meal/snack credits on our first DP trip too. I was confused until I got home and figured it out. I forgot that we got 1 qs/ts/snack credit each day per person per night. So while me may only spend 6 days in the parks, we still had 8 credits of each type per person. The good thing about that is that on the day we leave we had a ton of fudge and cookies for the drive home! :yay:
 
So, he really does want to go back. Really. He wasn't pulling my chain, and he tells me at least every other day how he can't wait to go...

I wouldn't necessarily say I've made a Disney lover out of Aaron, but he sipping the kool aid at least. He sees that a Disney vacation is way more than visiting a theme park for a day, and appreciates all of the little extras that make Disney special.

You will know for sure that he has made the complete conversion when he says, "You know, we should look into DVC if we're going to come back to WDW every year!" :thumbsup2
 
Casey - That was the best ending to a TR ever! Great idea to try and return for your DD Birthday.
 
Awesome!!

:laughing:I thought maybe your DH had been completely replaced and looking into DVC.

I must have posted as you were adding the second part.

I totally agree with you about spending time apart. I will have to remember that when our next trip comes around. I am thinking DH will just come to the parks in the morning for EMH and then by noon he can head back to the resort to watch tv or whatever it is that he wants to do.

The cabins sound great. I have always wanted to stay there and it seems like there is so much to do. I don't think you will be able to stick with your choice for 8 months though so I doubt we'll be hearing about them on your next trip report.

I'm actually very comfortable with the cabins as a resort choice, not so much just for me but for Aaron. He can go fishing, bikeriding, rent a water mouse, or go fishing while Kass and I are at the parks, he'll be a happy camper. (Literally, LOL). Of the resort choices, especially considering there is a seperate bedroom with a tv, I think it's going to work out way better than a single room at a resort. The only other choice that was similar was to book a 1 bedroom Villa, but the cabins are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay cheaper. I actually looked at booking a 1 bedroom at Kidani but even with our military discounts it was still like $1500 more than the cabin. I've been looking into bike and golf cart rentals as well to make the stay there more pleasant. I think I'm going to book the Backyard BBQ as well. I have zero desire to go the Hoop de Doo.

The only thing that would seriously sway me from the cabins is the Poly. If they make an official announcement that it's going to shut down for an extended period next fall it's going to be hard to keep me away from there.
 
Love the RC'ers!!!:love:

Wow! Are you sure you brought the right husband home???? :lmao: But really I'm so glad that your trip did such a turn around .... you ended up having so much fun. Loved reading your TR and can hardly wait for the next one! :yay:

I was seriously thrown for a loop on that last day. He was a completely different person, I had no idea that things like that actually happen. I didn't dare to hope at first, I thought he was yanking my chain and at any second he'd revert and tell me what he really thought. I have no idea what happened, I wish I knew, but at some point the kool aid kicked in. I think they put something in the tap water. Whatever it is, I wish I had it at home, LOL.

Oh Casey, all I have to say is....

FAN-flippin-TABULOUS :yay: So happy he turned around, too bad it was the last day, but now you all can go back. He loved it even without POTC or HM :love: I look forward to watching your planning (and RCing) for Kassidy's birthday trip....I sure hope DH can make the trip :goodvibes

Thank you!!! I did go ahead and book the cabins for the first week of June, so we are official, but everything is always tentative when we involve Aaron. He doesn't want us to go back without him any more, now that he knows what he is missing. His deployment schedule is never set though, it's always kind of random. "Hey, by the way, you are going to Afganisthan for four months next week, better pack." Literally, it's that bad. I'm keeping my fingers crossed. He just got a bunch of new people in so hopefully he won't have to deploy so much.

Love it!!!! So glad you're going back... but as of now, I have no faith that you'll be at the cabins :laughing: We go in May and it's getting busier and busier.... so no worries... take the birthday trip!!

I'm glad you have Dr. Jekyll back..... Mr. Hyde is visiting at my house because I'm trying to budget and he wants to splurge with $ I dont' have :laughing:

Loved the report!! Guess I'll have one pretty soon!!

Oh ye of little faith, LMAO!!! The only thing that would sway me from the cabins this trip is the Poly. If it's going away in it's current state, I don't know that anything can keep me from going there one last time.

I'm so excited for you and your upcoming trip. Oh, and that little thing of getting married too. ;) I know your trip report will be better than mine!!!
 
Aww, sad that it's over but so happy that you got him converted!!!

My dh wasn't excited AT ALL about Disney. He was happy that our kids were going to get to go but he didn't want to hear anything about - said he'd prefer to be surprised (yeah, right) and said he would get excited when his booty hit the airplane seat.

For us, going to Vero Beach was the ticket. He and I both Love, Love, Loved it. It was the "relaxing" portion of the trip because after that it was strictly commando and he did great and is the reason we are going back in January:)


I've thought about taking a couple of days and just going to the beach, I may have to look into that. Rest and relaxation and toes in the sand does sound appealing. It's hard with the kiddo though, at 8 she doesn't yet appreciate the whole "chilling on the beach with a drink" thing.

I'm glad you have a Disney Believer in the family! It's so nice to hear "I want to go back" from someone else, LOL.


Hi there fellow sister married to Mr.Hyde!:wave2:

We are going on our first ever trip to wdw in December:eek: I am so glad your did the TR we fellow sisters need all the help we can get, when you said " are you just wandering aimlessly" I just flipped out a fellow sister.:yay: Some DH's are nasty, or jerks....or well you know __wipes all the time and the spouse can control situations but with a Hyde ....always lurking and ready to pounce, or happy and loving.. talk about emotional rollercoaster.:sad2: I have started throwing the bipolar statement out there when I have had enough Jekyll/Hyde and ol Hyde will retreat.:lmao: I can't believe I'm a newbie taking a J/H to WDW.......I have lost my mind:scared1:

Hello to you, my sister in pain! LOL My husband has always been a Hyde lurking and ready to pounce, so I know exactly what you mean. An emotional roller coaster is a great way to put it. It's a good thing that I have a deep well of patience. There is no way we would have made it 9.75 years of marriage without it, LOL.

You'll be fine, just keep it realistic. The other thing that may help that I forgot to mention is to take a cab instead of waiting for the bus if he's already huffy. If he hates waiting for anything like mine does, the quick point A to point B when you want it beats waiting for the bus in a hot line hands down.


So happy for you that your husband ended up truly enjoying Disney. Maybe it was good that it wasn't too long of a trip. That way, he learned stuff about Disney & you learned things about him & Disney. Sounds like y'all had a truly magical vacation ending!

And :woohoo: for your next trip! I think that's great that y'all are going for your daughter's bday. I would love to do that for my son one year. Hopefully, the next trip will be even more magical for all 3 of y'all & not include "the fight". :laughing:

I agree, I think the short trip at first was the best idea. I don't think he would have made it a week, especially not in that heat. He's indoctrinated now, he knows how things work and next trip I hope to not see Hyde at all. But, you never know, he does tend to peek out an unexpected times...

And I vow not to have "the fight" next time. I'll be sure and start a massive fight at home a couple days before we leave just so we can get it out of our systems before we hit Orlando. :lmao:


Yeah, we went to the first party on Sept 13th, and it was way crowded. We spent about 45 minutes to get pictures with the 7 dwarfs. Most rides were walk-ons because the lines were insane.

We ended up with extra meal/snack credits on our first DP trip too. I was confused until I got home and figured it out. I forgot that we got 1 qs/ts/snack credit each day per person per night. So while me may only spend 6 days in the parks, we still had 8 credits of each type per person. The good thing about that is that on the day we leave we had a ton of fudge and cookies for the drive home! :yay:

I skipped the Dwarves line, I lost too much time as it was and we didn't even meet any characters. I just feel like we got nothing accomplished. If I ever went again I think we would go ahead and show up at 4 and get rides out of the way, and just spend the rest of the night on the Villians, Dance Party and Trick or Treating. The time just slips by so quickly, 5 hours isn't enough time to see everything, not when you have to park for 45 minutes to an hour just to get a seat for the parade.

Having 2 meal credits left over actually turned out great and I actually may plan it that way from now on. Southwest doesn't have meals for purchase, just free snacks, so you are stuck for actual food unless you pack some in your carry on. Having sandwiches, chips and cookies was SO NICE for the flight home and we avoided spending boo coo bucks at the airport on food.

You will know for sure that he has made the complete conversion when he says, "You know, we should look into DVC if we're going to come back to WDW every year!" :thumbsup2

When I first saw him with the DVC guy, my heart skipped a beat. I would love the DVC thing, but there is just no way we can afford it, not when we both have car payments still. Still, I got a little excited for a millisecond, LOL.


Casey - That was the best ending to a TR ever! Great idea to try and return for your DD Birthday.

Thanks Sheila!!! We went in May this year and celebrated Kassidy's birthday a couple of weeks early while we were there with my Mom and Brother. She loved wearing the birthday pin and having all the characters fawn all over her, it really made her trip. 2012 will be the last year that Kass is a Disney "kid", she'll be turning 9. Gotta milk the savings while we can, LOL.
 
Thanks Sheila!!! We went in May this year and celebrated Kassidy's birthday a couple of weeks early while we were there with my Mom and Brother. She loved wearing the birthday pin and having all the characters fawn all over her, it really made her trip. 2012 will be the last year that Kass is a Disney "kid", she'll be turning 9. Gotta milk the savings while we can, LOL.

I so know what you mean , the first time we went to Disney our DS's were 19 and 9 so by our second trip we were a party of 4 Adults, it is bad enough that you have to pay more for the park tickets but the extra Adult charge for the room adds up fast.
 
So glad you got a happy...(yet confusing) ending!! :goodvibes

And that is so exciting about your next trip!

Loved reading your TR! Cant wait to hear the next lot of adventures :thumbsup2
 
Love the RC'ers!!!:love:


Thank you!!! I did go ahead and book the cabins for the first week of June, so we are official, but everything is always tentative when we involve Aaron. He doesn't want us to go back without him any more, now that he knows what he is missing. His deployment schedule is never set though, it's always kind of random. "Hey, by the way, you are going to Afganisthan for four months next week, better pack." Literally, it's that bad. I'm keeping my fingers crossed. He just got a bunch of new people in so hopefully he won't have to deploy so much.



Oh ye of little faith, LMAO!!! The only thing that would sway me from the cabins this trip is the Poly. If it's going away in it's current state, I don't know that anything can keep me from going there one last time.

I'm so excited for you and your upcoming trip. Oh, and that little thing of getting married too. ;) I know your trip report will be better than mine!!!

We love you too Casey!!!! :grouphug: With all this Poly refurb talk, the winds of change may be among us :goodvibes And if he HAS to go, my wish is after Xmas and home by June :wizard:
 
Oh my gosh. I totally feel like I could be reading something that I had actually written.

My now husband was totally Mr. Hyde for almost the entire trip when we went for his first time! He was a complete brat, so negative, complaining so much. And about things that I had fully explained to him before we left. I called my mom in tears a few times, because I was at a loss of what to do.

The last night we were there, he finally seemed to come out of his funk. We stayed at the Magic Kingdom until they pretty much kicked us out. And his exact words as we walked out of the turnstiles were, "Too bad that I'm finally enjoying it....and it's our last day!"

I wanted to strangle him. :sad2:

But, he surprised me. I was afraid to even bring up a Disney trip for anytime in the near future, thinking he would shut it down immediately. But with his encouragement, we planned our honeymoon for 10 days down in good ol' WDW. He is super excited, and has loved doing all the planning with me. We leave next month, and he loves asking to check my countdown app on the iPhone to see how much longer till we get to leave. :rotfl:

I think there is something to be said for going into a situation with no idea of what you are really getting into. And certain people just get very resistant because of it. But once they know what it's like, and feel like they have some control, then they are on board.

All of that just to say, I totally sympathize with your trip. I hope your June trip is better. I enjoyed reading both the highs and the lows that you shared with us, just to know that I am not alone in my Mr. Hyde experience! :goodvibes
 
Hi Casey. I just finished the second half of your TR... what a cliff-hanger! And the trick surprise ending... Pulitzer worthy!

It was a fun read. Thanks! :goodvibes And now more fun awaits in 2012, even if RCing is out of the question. :thumbsup2
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My Hyde has been looking at new luggage:scared1:.....I had no idea! I think I might take this as a good sign...maybe:confused:
 
UGH...... The Hyde side of my Jekyll/Hyde DH came home lastnight mad at an employee and I must have said something that triggered "If you didn't think you were the smartest person in the world and listen to me you might learn something and when even you decide to get on my team let me know" etc..... I was just listening to him rant about the guy and BAM its about me........ He tried to make up 20 min later, I hate his moody whiplash! My new luggage was just delivered I don't even feel like getting it out of the box, can I really do this trip????????? I am running very low on pixie dust.
 












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