Don't you just love friends who only come around when they want something?

[imabrat]

 

[Jasmine45]

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STORY OF MY LIFE.


what did they want from my gurrrrrrrrrrrrl?

 

[imabrat]

Chickie wanted me to come over to her moms party because "boy" was there. A party which started 3 hours ago. A party which Chickie wouldn't have even invited me to if "boy" wasn't there because apparently she "wasn't going to be there" in the first place!

Ughhh, I told her I'm not going. I'm tired of being there for her only when she needs it, never when I need it.

 

[ginnygirl102]

aww I know the feeling babe.....

 

[Babyjustrun]

I having issues with friends who latch onto anyone I'm friends with.
I don't have a single friend that my friend hasn't been all 'ooh you're friends with them, so i have to too!'
Except for one that she has a problem with.

 

[BabyPiglet]

I know what you mean, hun.

In 7/8th grade, most of my friends were a very superficial kind of friend. We really only hung out at school, and they only came over if they wanted something. It was really an irritating kind of thing.

Good thing you have friends here who loverzzz you. (I'm letting the inner 12 year old take over me tonight. xD)

 

[Kool Kat]

I having issues with friends who latch onto anyone I'm friends with.
I don't have a single friend that my friend hasn't been all 'ooh you're friends with them, so i have to too!'Except for one that she has a problem with.

UGH i know how you feel... i can't stand it..... is SO ANOYING!!!!!!!!

 

[Sparx]

i used to have two of these.
seth and james.

i had a crush on seth, and he used that to his advantage. and i ended up dating james, and he only had me around when he wanted or needed something.

one time, seth didn't talk to me for two months. the first time he talks to me is to ask to borrow my phone so he can call someone to pick him up. and while he was waiting for his ride, i was his best friend.

eventually i figured out what they were doing, and i've completely cut them both out of my life.

that's the best advice i can give you. cut them out of your life, and stop being a doormat. its hard, and you'll feel guilty, but when its done, you'll feel better i promise. i did.

oh, and seth+james are brothers. i guess its hereditary lol.

 

[Sparx]

I having issues with friends who latch onto anyone I'm friends with.
I don't have a single friend that my friend hasn't been all 'ooh you're friends with them, so i have to too!'
Except for one that she has a problem with.

i had a girl who tried to do that to annoy me. it was a girl i used to be pretty close friends with, but after a conflict over my boyfriend (yes, i chose matt over this girl) i realized how mean she was to me.

whenever we hung out all she would do would be text people to try to get more people to come hang out.

and she would always want to do expensive stuff like bowling or going out to eat or going to the movies and i never had any money, cause money is tight.

and she was never around to hang out cause she was always busy, but if i was busy when she wanted to hang out, she would freak out.

or if me/group wanted to do somethings he didn't want to do, we had to stop and do whatever she wanted. i remember two big instances of this.

one time, me and two other friends were watching a movie at a friends house. she wanted to tag along. so we get there and wait and wait and wait. and we finally start the movie. well. 35 minutes in, shanna shows up and she had bought food (just for her, mind you. it wasn't like popcorn or something she could share, she went to kfc and got a meal) and then demanded that we restart the movie.

another time my friend mariah and i wanted to eat at waffle house, and shanna wanted burger king and she threw a fit when we went to waffle house instead and stormed off and got mad when we didn't go after her.


so i cut her out of my life too. and now she always tries to get in the middle of whoever i'm talking to. and i seriously do not care. it makes me laugh that this happened like 6 months ago and she's still being a freak about it. so oh well. she's making herself miserable by hating me, so its all her own fault.

 

[~Serenity~]

I hate that, it's so obnoxious.

I had a friend who was only friend with me until she felt I wasn't popular enough and then became friends with the more popular girl.

 

[myleadguitargirl]

I'm so sorry! I know how you feel.

I hate that, it's so obnoxious.

I had a friend who was only friend with me until she felt I wasn't popular enough and then became friends with the more popular girl.

I've had that happen plenty of times...

 

[Babyjustrun]

i had a girl who tried to do that to annoy me. it was a girl i used to be pretty close friends with, but after a conflict over my boyfriend (yes, i chose matt over this girl) i realized how mean she was to me.

whenever we hung out all she would do would be text people to try to get more people to come hang out.

and she would always want to do expensive stuff like bowling or going out to eat or going to the movies and i never had any money, cause money is tight.

and she was never around to hang out cause she was always busy, but if i was busy when she wanted to hang out, she would freak out.

or if me/group wanted to do somethings he didn't want to do, we had to stop and do whatever she wanted. i remember two big instances of this.

one time, me and two other friends were watching a movie at a friends house. she wanted to tag along. so we get there and wait and wait and wait. and we finally start the movie. well. 35 minutes in, shanna shows up and she had bought food (just for her, mind you. it wasn't like popcorn or something she could share, she went to kfc and got a meal) and then demanded that we restart the movie.

another time my friend mariah and i wanted to eat at waffle house, and shanna wanted burger king and she threw a fit when we went to waffle house instead and stormed off and got mad when we didn't go after her.


so i cut her out of my life too. and now she always tries to get in the middle of whoever i'm talking to. and i seriously do not care. it makes me laugh that this happened like 6 months ago and she's still being a freak about it. so oh well. she's making herself miserable by hating me, so its all her own fault.

=( that sucks.
My friend was getting like that a few weeks ago. We all wanted to go out for sushi, and she was all 'Fine then, I'm not going, because I'll never find anything to eat'. So of course once she did that everyone else changed their minds because we have to cater to her. I was pissed. And then the other day I was going with like 4 other people. And one of them invited her. Of course she said yes because it meant that she could hang out with people she didn't normally... AKA my other friends. She also invited about 5 other people to come. It ended up being fun, but I wasn't impressed.
A few weeks ago she didn't want to go when it was just us girls, but now that there was guys (not even ones she liked) she wanted to go and flirt her *** off just to confuse them.

 

[gymnastgirlflips]

I know how that goes...

I just basically don't talk to that person anymore, even though I kinda have to. Guess what? She just called me and asked for a favor a couple hours ago. I said no, it's one of those life skills you need- being able to say no. Those kind of people aren't really your friends if they do that... I say avoid them or tell them how you feel and maybe they'll change.
I hate when the day before they need your help they are all nice to you and ask you if you want to do something. It's pretty sad.
Always love your friends and don't make them feel like servants or anything.

 

[WDW Girl]

grrr! :|