I get what you're saying here. I'm on the go-get-your-scoop-of-eggs. I think that is the nature of buffets. One person dawdling around can't hold up a whole line of folks ready to go. But that's just me.
The thing with Donald's is different, though. Donald's is just set up so that a throing of people have to shove in and fight. If you wanted to wait and stand in line, it would be forever before you got to the buffet.
Isn't there some way they could fix it up so that didn't happen? Crystal Palace is wonderful, as is Park Fare. Chef Mickey's is a little chaotic, but no shoving, really. So it isn't the guests messing up Donald's. It has to be the set up.
Of course, none of us DISers would crowd in if we didn't have to...we're such wonderful people!