MichelleVW- we have a golden and an Aussie, too, and they are the same way. Our golden will retrieve just to take it away from the Aussie, but otherwise, no way. He does like to "eviscerate" the toys and remove the squeaker and stuffing, though. He also likes to "act", and has been in several theater productions (currently he is in Two Gentlemen of Verona). I swear he likes the lights and knows when he is on stage. He is extremely laid back, and his personality is best described as Dug from UP! Not the brightest golden on the planet....and goldens aren't the brightest to begin with!
Our Aussie, OTH, is obsessive about retrieving. She wakes me up by bringing me something to throw, and it continues until she goes to bed at night. I bet I throw the ball/toy easily at least 200 times/day. She also will herd the cats- had both of them stuck in the master bathtub the other day and wouldn't let them out. She is congenitally deaf and loves to chew on the squeakie toys....drives me nuts because she makes it squeak over and over and over and SHE can't hear it. Sometimes I just have to bait and switch to get some peace and quiet!
We also have an ancient Aussie/greyhound mix. She will hoard the toys (puts them all in her bed), but can't see well anymore, so she no longer retrieves. I think she takes all the toys just to irritate the other two- and it works.
As irritating as they all can be, I wouldn't live without the dogs.....at least you can train and crate a dog. Now teenagers....that's a different story!