Does anyone take their kids out school for DVC?

Originally posted by diznygirl
Yeah, like surf music. Seen the beach party movies - lots of fun. Frankie Avalon is sooo cute...

He's held up relatively well.

You still need a few lessons in civility

I'll leave that decision up to more credible sources, thank you.

and I'm still taking DS out of school for two days for a family vacation. I don't think all your snarky (sic) comments are going to change anyone's ideas of how to raise their kids.

Changing ideas may be your agenda, not mine. Let's just say that many of the sybarites are getting a wake-up call (ergo, that last post from tmq about being "arm-twisted") that this particular element of their behavior is increasingly "un-PC."

Or stated differently, I don't have to do a thing.

Because the government is beating me to it.
 
After reading this thread for many days....today I finally realized that my opinon that family togetherness ranks above everything else is the right choice....Where you go to college, graduate, what your degree is in....IT JUST DOESN'T MATTER.....because ya know what...YOU JUST NEVER KNOW!!...

We lost another DISer way to early in life again...42 years old...and I can guarantee his family enjoys the vacation memories that they shared together (as do the other families from this board that have lost family members to soon) and the fact of whether they skipped school or didn't skip school to share time together JUST DOESN"T MATTER!!!!!

So, Mickey...keep your degree and your kids in school....I for one will continue to place my families togetherness above everything else(and this includes vacations)...and know I'll never have a regret...if something tragic happens.....and after losing 2 immediate familiy members in one week at the end of April....I know it does happen....

GOD BLESS
 
I read this whole thread with great interest. My son is not in school yet, will start next year, but I already have a WDW vacation planned for 11/2006. YES! I will be taking him out of school, he will be in 1st grade during that time.

Life is just too short...although education IS important & I would not take my child out of school for a vacation more then 1x per school year, I think sometimes you just have to stop & smell the roses....even if they are at Walt Disney World!
 
ZW, you are one smart cookie!

As for my opinion, the schools continue to add days and take away, recesses, and the fun classes and kids do not seem to be getting any smarter. MAYBE, the schools need to re-think their agenda.
 

I guess a bigger question is ........ who are the stricter attendance rules for??? Those families who take their kids out of school for a couple of days for a family vacation or those familes who's parents fail to make sure their kids are going to school on a daily basis??
 
Originally posted by Laurabearz
I guess a bigger question is ........ who are the stricter attendance rules for??? Those families who take their kids out of school for a couple of days for a family vacation or those familes who's parents fail to make sure their kids are going to school on a daily basis??

My guess the rules were originally set up because of the kids that didn't report to school on a regular basis...

I fortunately don't have any such attendance rules. Our school doesn't have any attendance policies....
 
O.K., I finally get the mindset here.

"Good" parents are apparently those who not only take their children to WDW at least once annually, but who always intentionally schedule such visits to conveniently occur while schools are in session. This group wraps itself in the God, motherhood, apple pie and family values flag, burying their actual "all-we-really-care-about-is-going-in-off-season" agenda under a patriotic gospel of "family first, life is too short, smell the roses," etc. Anyone who dares challenge this group is demonized and shouted down as being a bullying infringer on God-given individual liberties.

"Bad" parents are apparently any who make their poor, unfortunate children work through the entire current school term, only taking vacations at WDW when school is not in session. Irrespective of how well these families plan their vacations to WDW, they can't possibly be as engaging, exciting or fulfilling as those of the "good parents." Because these families don't yank their kids out of school to go to WDW, their children will inevitably grow up unhealthy, ill-adjusted and unhappy. Because these families don't yank their kids out of school to go to WDW, these families must be overly-serious, unloving, emotionally bankrupt voids of a mindless Protestant work ethic.

Yes, I finally get the mindset here.
 
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Originally posted by Laurabearz
I guess a bigger question is ........ who are the stricter attendance rules for???

The rules are for everyone. Stricter rules are a result of many factors. NCLB/manditory testing is one of them...the schools are accountable for your child's progress, so they are at least going to make sure your child is present (unless there is some legitimate reason). There are parents here who think nothing of taking their children out of school to go to WDW twice/year for 2 weeks at a time.
 
Originally posted by mikeymars
O.K., I finally get the mindset here.

"Good" parents are apparently those who not only take their children to WDW at least once annually, but who always intentionally schedule such visits to conveniently occur while schools are in session. This group wraps itself in the God, motherhood, apple pie and family values flag, burying their actual "all-we-really-care-about-is-going-in-off-season" agenda under a patriotic gospel of "family first, life is too short, smell the roses," etc. Anyone who dares challenge this group is demonized and shouted down as being a bullying infringer on God-given individual liberties.

"Bad" parents are apparently any who make their poor, unfortunate children work through the entire current school term, only taking vacations at WDW when school is not in session. Irrespective of how welll these families plan their vacations to WDW, they can never possibly be as good as those of the "good parents." Because these families don't yank their kids out of school to go to WDW, their children will inevitably grow up unhealthy, ill-adjusted and unhappy. Because these families don't yank their kids out of school to go to WDW, these families must be overly-serious, unloving, emotionally bankrupt voids of a mindless Protestant work ethic.

Yes, I finally get the mindset here.

Mickey...I don't think anyone said you were a "bad" parent because you choose not to take your kids out of school...But you started the name calling and elistist attitude...that those of us who do chose to do it are some how poor parents...

I don't care if you pull your kids out or not..but don't judge my reasons why I chose to...and for me it boils down strictly to having fun as a family.....Not slower times or such...but when we chose to go....

So, don't call me names or infer that my kids will suffer damage to their college careers because I chose family over education a few times in the primary education and I'll respect your decision to keep your kids in school....IT's that simple
 
Originally posted by Bojangles
The rules are for everyone. Stricter rules are a result of many factors. NCLB/manditory testing is one of them...the schools are accountable for your child's progress

Bingo - people wanted the schools to be more accountable for results, but only now are some parents waking up to the consequences of that --- which include an end to the old, casual approaches to tracking and managing school attendance.
 
Originally posted by mikeymars
Bingo - people wanted the schools to be more accountable for results, but only now are some parents waking up to the consequences of that --- which include an end to the old, casual approaches to tracking and managing school attendance.

Not having kids in public school I can only go by what I have been told....but being accountable for just attendance of a child has no bearing on the success of the child.....

Seems like they spend way to much time preparing to get the kids to pass state minimums then actually teaching....I have heard many many complaints on message boards and from friends in the public school system to know that they got bigger problems then just attendance.....but like I said....I'm just going on what I've been told..no first hand experience here....
 
Yep, we are taking ds out of school. Our school district says a student must have an attendance rate of 90%. A parent must always submit a note excusing the absence and if a child misses more then five days in a row, then a dr. note is required. We have 180 school days, so that is 18 absences before a parent has to go before some type of board to plead their case. We told ds' teacher that we will be going to Disney in October and she said just to remind her closer to the date so she could get ds' school work together.
 
It seems to me that good parents in some worlds are those that only obey the rules, never step one foot off the beaten path and derive great satisfaction from the moral superiority of their position.

Bad parents don't give a hoot.


If that works for you, great. It doesn't for me.

A child's capability doesn't rest solely on his attendance record....it rests on his/her hard work, his/her teachers' dedication and parental involvement. Alot of that goes on outside a classroom. As long as my child performs to the best of his capabilities on a regular basis, I'll continue to make decisions concerning his attendance and his extra curricular activities.

And if you really want your hair to turn gray, my son misses school for swim meets. He's been to Olympic qualifying meets with his principal's total approval. Some things should be experienced outside of a classroom. Quite frankly, they can't always be experienced anywhere else.
 
Originally posted by zurgswife
for me it boils down strictly to having fun as a family.....Not slower times or such

Exhibit "A" of the textbook "good" family gospel I described earlier. The fact the parks are less crowded and less expensive in the off season periods couldn't possibly have anything to do with why the "good" families always happen to go then.

No, it's always just a coincidence.....the only agenda is always solely the God-motherhood-apple pie "fun as a family" thing!

Originally posted by gina2000
Some things should be experienced outside of a classroom.

I wholeheartedly agree.

I celebrated my 9th birthday at the Chateaux du Chillon in Montreux, Switzerland. Beat any event I could have had in class.

Two years earlier, I personally met Clyde Beatty after his performance under the big top in Kansas City, Mo. That would have never happened in school.

At age 12, I rode a bicycyle with my father and brothers UP Mount Haleakala in Maui, and we spent the night at the peak (back in the era when the National Park Service still let people do that). Beat anything I ever did in geography class.

Earlier (at age eight), I crossed that Atlantic from New York To LeHarve, France as a first class passenger on the S.S. France, and returned a year later (from Genoa, Italy to New York) on the S.S. Michelangelo of the Italian line. Reading about the grand Atlantic liner era in history class would have been a poor substitute for both of those experiences.

As a teen, I spent three weeks working on a dairy farm outside Gronigen, Holland (with a family that spoke no english whatsoever). Saw a side of life no textbook could ever cover.

One note about all of the above:

All were experienced during periods when school was not in session.

Or stated differently, implying that full, regular attendance at school is stifiling, somehow inevitably limiting a child's exposure to the dynamics of a larger world is...shall we say...a complete pile of hooey.
 
So, Mickey Boy....how do you feel about homeschooling?????
 
Mikey:
Wow to be as perfect of a parent as you are...........
ahhhh No thanks we will still keep our reservation for the beginning of December:teeth:
 
Originally posted by mikeymars
Or stated differently, implying that full, regular attendance at school is stifiling, somehow inevitably limiting a child's exposure to the dynamics of a larger world is...shall we say...a complete pile of hooey.


I'm laughing my butt off. You consider this diatribe anything close to debating? I don't even consider this stimulating conversation.

Yawn. I'm off to make some ressies. Ta ta.
 
Originally posted by tmq2766
Mikey:
Wow to be as perfect of a parent as you are...........
ahhhh No thanks we will still keep our reservation for the beginning of December:teeth:

See Ya there....:sunny: :sunny: :sunny:
 





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