Do your relatives think you're nuts??

One of my brothers thought I was nuts and had definitely "inhaled" too much of the pixie dust when I mentioned that we were going to buy DVC. A few weeks later, when I told him we had closed on our contract and had our points in the system, he was asking "So when do you think you'll be able to let us use your points to take our daughter to Disney ?"

Funny how things change.

Chris
 
Tinks "SS";32400152 said:
My mom was the one who i thought would really blow up cause she doesn't like timeshares at all. But she thinks that DVC is the best case of all the ones out there. She thought it was a bit high but supportive. Definitely wont approve of any addonitis but she won't have to know.:rotfl:


here's to MANY happy vacations!


Both of my folks were the same way. They bought into a timeshare (Vistana) over 20 years ago when they took us kids to Disney. "Don't do it, it costs sooo much each year and you'll never use it (yeah right.......)"

I didn't tell them anything until the deal was closed. Their first thought was "You did what ?? You spent how much ?? Oh no.........."

Their tune changed a bit when I said, "We were wondering if the two of you would like to go to Disney next year with us and two of your grandkids."

Needless to say the look on their face and their excitement (along with our kids) was worth every penny that we paid for our points - before we ever even get to use our points.

Chris
 
Growing up we always drove close to 24 hours to go visit relatives. Goofydad didn't go on family vacations.

Thankfully we started going on family vacations that didn't involve visiting relatives.

We recently went to a family wedding and I was called a Disney snob. :confused3

We cherish our family vacations. I do get tired of explaining myself. I just give up.
 
Our family pretty much thinks we're nuts, but is always right there to help use up the points! We do more nights with our points each year, then my sister does with her trailer she just bought in the last year or two and already wants to sell and get a motorhome. To each their own! :upsidedow
 

With the exception of two family members everyone else totally gets why we own. My parents are actually in WDW this week on our points with my brother and nephew. Of course, my mom is the source of my Disney obsession. So much so that she paid for our first add-on after we bought our intial contract so that she could use our points sometimes.
 
My parents sold their Myrtle Beach condo to buy a snowbird nest in FL near Disney. Their thinking: Make it near the attractions and family will come visit.

So, Yes, they think I'm crazy to stay on Disney property in general as they're "right there". Being old school about saving pennies they'd also blow a blood vessel if they knew I bought into a timeshare. It's just not a sound financial investment, and according to mom I can't afford to go on vacations! Oh sweet innocence. It's just best to keep them in the dark. :rotfl:

I suspect my sis is into disney just as much as I am (she worked the college program) and more recently has been looking to hit the parks, but I'm too afraid to approach her on the subject of DVC for fear of being labeled nuts LOL.
 
Yes, most of them do and a very frequent question is "You're going again?".
However, in two instances .....one a friend and one a relative.....that question stopped after they stayed with us at a DVC resort at WDW. One had only stayed offsite on previous trips (maybe once every ten years or so) and the other had only been once before and had also stayed offsite......so both were very accustomed to the "commando style" of Disney vacations and couldn't imagine what we got from it.......until they did a WDW vacation "our way". Now, the friend tells anyone and everyone she knows who is planning a Disney vacation to call me for tips and advice....................
 
My own parents think that "all those poor people who own timeshares in this economy can't get rid of them!" We told them years ago that we'd bought, but I guess they forgot. They don't know anything about the DIS. But they don't have any problem with DH and I going to WDW yearly, or me taking frequent trips without him. Mom went once with me, and although she'd love to go back, Dad won't go.
My in-laws all just feel bad for us-DBIL and his wife got pressured into a timeshare in Orlando and are sure that the reason we own because we got pressured, too. So they think they understand. No one knows that we've ever bought more points-no one understands points, and their eyes glaze over when we try to explain, so we don't. They're tolerant of my solo trips, when DH tells them, "Dorothy's going to WDW alone again" and are more puzzled about him being so supportive of his wife vacationing alone than anything. DMIL went to WDW once with us, and although she liked it, I don't think she loved it (althugh she did enjoy playing golf there).
No one around where we live owns, and not many people have been to WDW, so we don't tell many people about our frequent trips.

yeah, really my folks really can't tell if we are nuts, or were just duped by a dubious salesman. :rotfl2:
 
Yeah. Pretty much. :rotfl:

Now, I do have a cousin who's been going a couple of times a year the past couple of years... She's talked to our guide before. First time they looked they didn't like the maintenance fees (were staying in values & figured they could go for that much). Had a 2nd child last summer...bumped up to a Moderate last trip (in May)...planning to go again in January for the marathon... Started re-thinking DVC...they watched that webcast thing for BLT last week. I asked her if BLT was what was impt. or just owning DVC. They just want DVC and are like us & plan to resort hop. So then I pointed her to the Timeshare store....they put a contract on something last week at SSR. They spend a lot of time at DTD so I think they will be happy. So they "get it". They're pretty much the only ones tho.

I cannot worry about everyone else. To those who don't "get it" I point out that everyone seems to have "a place" that they go to over & over, usually every year. Typically it's to a place at the beach (same beach, same place) or the mountains (same rental) every year. Many own their own condos or 2nd homes. Why is going to Disney a couple times a year any different? I just say that WDW is "our place". It is no different than anyone who goes to Wildwood or Ocean City or Myrtle Beach EVERY SINGLE YEAR. We resort hop so that each trip is different and we quite enjoy our shorter 4 n trips. What fun it is when there's a holiday weekend & someone says "are you doing anything special?" that we can say "YES! We're going to Disney!!!":goodvibes :thumbsup2
 
;)There are elements in my family that are a bit, um... judgmental, so I have tried not to discuss it all that much with them. They know we are Disney freaks and that we go at least once a year. They have to know, because the kids talk about it a lot, we come back with a ton of photos and I usually ask them to dogsit. But I try to avoid the details as much as possible.


Recently my grandma (always judging & worrying about things that are none of her business) asked flat out how much we paid for DVC. She & my brother had been talking & speculating (way high) how much it costs us for our measely 160 points. DVC cost us far less than many of our friends put into their cabins "up north" and probably less than my brother spends at the bar each year...but yet they feel the need to question our purchase. :confused3 That ticked me off a bit, but I'll get over it. I think people like this would question anything we do.

Most people (friends & family alike) are respectful of our choices and many have their own fond Disney memories, so they get it. My husband's family has been cool about it and my MIL even came with us in 2007. It was her first real trip anywhere EVER! First time on a plane, first time out of the state...she had a great time and hopes to return in a few years. That trip was one of our "this is why we bought DVC" moments for sure.

And I do intend to invite that brother & his family to vacation with us on our points someday--if not for him, for my niece to experience Disney at least once. Or maybe he'll just let us bring her along with our family and he can stay home.(Yep, I am feeling a bit mean today).
 
I'm not 100% sure but I would guess they think we're a little nuts. I think DH thinks I'm a little nuts sometimes too! I am the Disney nut, not him. I have managed to pass that trait on to DS11 as well. ;)

My mother doesn't say too much but I can tell by the look on her face when I talk about another trip. It usually looks something like this :rolleyes:. I was just telling my Dsis I was planning a mother/son trip next year for his b-day. It's not a "big" b-day (he'll be 12). She told me I was really grasping at straws & looking for any excuse to go. Well yah! You're just figuring this out now? :laughing: Clearly she doesn't get it. This from the person who either goes to Aruba or Malibu, CA on all her vacations. :confused3 The CA trip usually involves my mother & their favorite vacation activity is stalking celebrities. And I'm the crazy one?

My DILS don't even know we own DVC. My DFIL thinks the economy is about to implode at any moment. He thinks we should not spend money on anything. We should be hiding it in our mattress basically. Have I mentioned he's a little :crazy:? If they knew we owned DVC they would flip their lids & we'd never hear the end of it. They don't know the meaning of mind your own business or let it go! Sad that we have to keep things from them, but that's how it goes with families sometimes.
 
Oh ya. Because of DVC we are the members of the family others don't talk about. DIS is the only place that GETS IT.
 
Yes but we think they are just as nuts:rolleyes1

BIL and SIL have a timeshare in FL. They go twice/yr and almost never do Disney. I think 2 times in the last 6 yrs. And only for 1 day and only MK.

We have no desire to go anywhere else and love Disney!!!!!!!!

My mother is all in:thumbsup2

MIL - well we went Sept of 2008 and DH and I gave each other an adult only trip in Jan for chrismtas and MIL nearly lost it. Did not hide the fact that it was "stupid":sad2: We havent shared much w/ her since then

Our good friends love us because they will be getting to stay w/ us in DVC!
 
Well yes, but our relatives are nuts as well, just not nuts about Disney, so they don't give us too much grief :D
 
Yes, my family thinks that we are totally nuts. We don't care! We bought enough points to take our kids and their kids (14 of us all together) once a year about two years ago. They have not been able to find a "convenient time" yet, so we just keep travelling and having fun without them.
We have been to Disney World twice, on a AVD trip (Viva Italia) , to HHI once, and are booked in Dec. to go back to AKL for the Christmas dec's and events. They complain that it will still cost them $1,000 for tickets plus the food, and they would rather go snow skiing in the winter. My response was "Have fun in Colorado, and let me know when you change your mind". My grandkids are dying to go with us, but with six of them, we need parents along. Oh well, I guess we will just keep having fun without them.
 
They all thought I was nuts until I took them with me and we stayed in a GV.
Now they only think I'm nuts(not exactly what they call me) if I don't invite them when I visit Disney:lmao::lmao:. Susan
 
I don't want my family going with us anymore. We did it once. Can you say Disaster. Yes I'm crazy and you don't want to vacation with me. One of our relatives had the guts to ask to us our points one year. Kidney yes points not a chance. I will give you the number to DVC if you want.
 
Yes. They don't understand why we go back to Disney year after year.

Or in DVC Mike's case several times every year! :cool1:

Not a dig Mike - Just another jealous fan! :love:

Our family thinks we are a bit obsessed, but are also starting to argue about who's turn to come with us!
 
Hardly anybody we talk to understands. We have a fellow DVC'r that I work with and he gets it (of course) but everyone else just is clueless, however most will ask us to help them plan trips to the world. We go twice a year and every 3rd trip is usually just adult trip to spoil ourselves. My 20 yo DD is a DisneyHolic and our 9yo DD is too so they will be Disney'rs for life i'm sure. I try to limit how much I talk about for fear of being "That Guy that won't shut up" but we pretty much are a walking talking DVC advertisement board.
Buy we look at it as its our money we earn it and until I ask you to make the payment its really non of there business!
AND WE'LL BE @ WDW IN 4 DAYS....Shawnpirate:
 
:) First trip to WDW in 2002 at age 32. Had a known what I was missing...or if I had gone as a child...I would be one of the VIP Tour Guides by now. I would not be a nurse and living in MS. In 2004 I had a nursing friend who was a DVC member and I remember how much she loved it and raved about all the trips. Several months later a nurse friend bought her membership. But before that I knew a doctor who was a member and they were almost through paying off their membership in 2003. I could have asked him questions all day.

Fast forward to 2 weeks ago. A typical Saturday Morning along the Gulf Coast...checking out the DVC News site...somehow that transpired into a phonecall with a guide..who sold DH and I 210 pts AKV...our first purchase. I am the Disney freak but DH can't stop talking about our points. He is the cutest man!

MIL instantly was trilled to cancel her Pop trip with us in Oct for a AKV studio with SV. We are already mulling over how many points we will need to transfer over for her for next year.

My parents kinda get it but weren't too sure about the expense. But they are happy for us. Most of my friends like Disney but have no clue about DVC or what it is. When they inquire becasue they catch me on a website...after 2 minutes their eyes glaze over and I just stop talking. I can't tell my brother yet. He and DSIL have 5 children together and I am afraid they will just love us for our points. With 5 kids I think DVC would be the way to go for them...will break it in gently over the next couple fo years.

I have known about the DIS for a year now. I have enjoyed every minute here...thanks so much for giving me the outlet to love Disney.:banana:
 












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