I went to DLand once before I met my wife. It was 1992 and I was 11. I remember thinking it was overhyped and that people paid a bunch of money to get in a park with mostly lame rides where they try to constantly sell you overpriced junk…. no thanks….. I’ll stick with Six Flags Over Texas.
And then 12 years later…..I live in Los Angeles and meet a girl in a bar (The Standard) on Sunset Blvd who I later learn loves theme parks (
Disneyland pass holder) and I can’t believe that an adult would ever want to go to a child’s theme park.
Fast forward to a few years later and we are married with a child in SW Washington and I am working 6-days a week with an hour commute each way. I discover that it is apparently a birthright for women who grow up in so-cal to go with their children to Disneyland at least once a year. (Especially if they were a former Cast Member!)
So here I am…. an overworked and horribly unexercised man is his late 20s… with his family staying at The Disneyland Hotel (for cheap in 2011) and we are going to Disneyland.
I don’t know if it was the runners high from finally getting exercise after all of those steps, but I went on Peter Pan and got flooded with pixie dust and actually felt like I was flying over London and all of the stress I was carrying just melted away….
I later discovered Trader Sam’s and would go get two Mai Tai’s and bring them up to our room and we would sit in the hall outside the room together and drink them waiting for our kiddo to fall asleep….
That’s when I internalized that Disney is a place where if you go in with the right mindset…. and stay on property for at least a few nights….and have a person in your group who knows what they are doing…. that it can be magical place… expensive…yes…. run by people who want to squeeze every dollar out of you….yes…. but still a place where the family can be happy together and not something where either the kids are happy OR the parents are happy…. you can have both….
That feeling has cost me a LOT of money over the last 15 years that could be worth a lot more if I would have stashed it into an investment portfolio…. but it has also brought us a lot of wonderful memories together and provided us with a lot of joy…..
DVC is part of that because it made it possible to stay on property and stay in the magic as the prices of hotels shot up and we had to start traveling around a school schedule and not whenever plane & hotel prices were cheap…..
We tried staying off property for a few years…. it wasn’t the same…. the magic didn’t start as soon as we woke up and it always broke as soon as we crossed harbor and saw the real world again…. no thanks…. I’d rather spend a small fortune and make sure I can stay at The Grand Californian and The Disneyland Hotel….
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