I have read a lot on this site and others about whether people follow a budget. I am one of those people that tracks down to the quarter what I spend (and my entire household) and have been doing this for over 10 years.
I also track all assets and liabilities and update these continuously so at any point in time, I can see my net worth.
I am actually astounded by comments from folks that say they don't believe that folks track their finances or make a budget. But maybe I'm the only one

So I wanted to ask this question -
Do you track your net worth?
-Yes
-No
-What is net worth?
Comments are welcome - please let me know why you do what you do (track or not) too!
When we were first married, we talked about our budget frequently. At that point we were, I suppose, honing our shared approach to money. Now, after 22 years of marriage, we never talk about it; it's not necessary. We have a sort of sixth sense about what we can and can't afford, and it doesn't fit neatly into a weekly or monthly budget. For example, this is a big spending month for us: Our yearly insurance (3 drivers + the house) is due, I just made a downpayment on our youngest's braces, and I'm buying 1/4 of a cow for the freezer. But this all fits into our planned expenditures: Paying our insurance yearly saves money, the braces are a necessity, and buying the cow gives us superior beef for a low price. For us, tracking down to the quarter would be a waste of time. Although our budget might seem rather fuzzy to someone else, we're in perfect agreement on the boundaries.
My husband calculates our total net worth twice a year: At New Year's and on our anniversary in July. This is often enough to see how our savings, retirement, etc. has grown (or occasionally shrunk), and it's often enough for us to guarantee that we're heading for our overall goals.
Every couple years my husband has a chance to talk to a financial advisor without charge. He always takes this offer, saying although we're actually ahead of our financial goals, it's nice to have an unbiased expert verify that we are actually on track for our savings goals.
I know, but I think we spend too much time basing a person's worth in monetary terms instead of worrying about what is really important!
Personally, I don't see the point in calculating your net worth. You have what you have and you know weather it is enough to support your lifestyle. It's nice to have a general idea of how you are doing, but I don't need an exact number.
Watching your budget doesn't mean you aren't
also paying attention to your family and relationships.
For us, especially my husband, not knowing where we stand financially is extremely stressful, and it prevents him from focusing on "what is really important". For example, he's been a bit on edge financially about our oldest heading out to college. We have the money many times over, but he's worried about whether we should pull it from this account or that account, should we use the savings bonds first or save them for the year when we'll have two in college, etc. Once she chose her college and he could see the actual costs, he relaxed a great deal. Neither of us deals well with "maybes".
Also, failing to watch your finances can cause trouble for your loved ones. I don't feel obligated to provide my children with their every whim, but I don't want them to have to borrow for college or figure out how to support me in my old age because I didn't save. Those things are also really important!