Gadget, you have, once again, done Yeoman's work trying to explain how many of us feel. Great post.
A couple of years ago there was a guest here who .... worked on the inside .... and had some interesting theories about WDW and guests. One of those was trying to explain the "disney can do no wrong" folks. I'm not sure I totally agree....I still can't understand how there can be so many filty bathrooms and people still think Disney is the living embodyment of perfection...anyway....the theory......
I am guessing there are Disney guests who are ONLY Disney guests. (Odd as it sounds with so many other wonderful vacation opportunities in the country alone). Anyway, the day they leave WDW, they are planning their next trip. They justify the expenses and proudly say "I'll eat peanut butter sandwiches for a year to afford to go back". Nothing is ever out of place and no place else is worth their attention.
Now we all know that our vacation $$$ is special to each of us and no one else can tell us HOW to vacation. Having said that.....
At some level THEIR world revolves around Disney and eventually they react personally when someone speaks a negative about Disney (even if it's the truth). It is now as if THEY are personally attacked and they react as if the attack was personal to THEM vs. simple observatons watcing a decline as discussed here. How many guests have written about friends and collegues commenting on frequent disney trips?
I said it at least 50 pages ago. EVERYBODY had a point where they can no longer pretend Disney is pefection. If Disney continues the path many of us see, some of these "Disney-Perfection-Enforcers" (is that better than Kool aid or rose colored

I tried) will slam into the same wall we have. For them, it will be especially painful because of their personal emotional involvement.
Speaking for me and my Disney history.....
As a child, my parents took me EVERYWHERE....and never to Disney. I didn't first experience a Disney park until I was 19 and took...myself. One thing I remember is how much more I was exposed to ----- in school I could talk about National Parks....because I had been to them. I could talk about historic sites, I had walked Picketts charge, or stood in the Capitol Rotunda or saw the China Room on a White House tour, for example.
I'm not sure I would have been happy to go to WDW for EVERY holiday. Ok, I remember begging my parents to go.....maybe one or two trips would have been COOL. Happily, however, my childhood identity was not totally built on a fantasy.
Honestly, visiting the American Experience, Frontier Land, Tomorrow Land, Hall of Presidents is no substitute for touring the White House, Capital, Smithsonian, great museums, broadway shows, driving along Skyline drive in the fall and watching a family of deer, Luray caverns, learning to fish and water ski on the Cheseapeake bay, whale watch in New England, seeing Elvis' home when we visited family in Memphis...the list of childhood memories.
One of my favorite memories? My father worked very hard to afford our comfortable living. We often didn't see as much of him as we wanted. My favorite book as a child....Misty of Chincoteague. One weekend my little bag was packed and I got in the car with Daddy......just a father - daughter weekend. He finally took me to see "Misty's house" and we saw the beautiful little ponies of Chincoteague. I'm 55 and I can still remember my father's face as he drove....and told me where we were going.
To tell the truth, I think I prefer my childhood memories to be diverse after all.