Do you hold grudges?

[HSMndLKfan92]

Yes. I stayed mad at my cousin for 7 years because she accidentally stepped on and ripped my communion dress.

And I held it against my best friend that she helped me blow out my candles on my 11th birthday.

 

[imabrat]

omg sonya were twins!

 

[DramaQueen]

I definitely am quick to forgive, and even give second and third chances (when they are deserved) but i don't forget, it's always in the back of my mind.
sometimes i'm reluctant to give second chances, depending on the situation.

I definitely forgive very very easily, but whatever you've done to/said to me, it won't be forgotten

 

[life of the party]

same thought at the same exact time
we're cooooool (;

 

[goofyandplutoluver]

Yeah, I'm super immature. If someone "betrays" me, I'll probably never be friends with them again.

 

[AliceinHalloweentown]

I'm quick to forgive.

I hold more of a psycological grudge than a physical one if that makes sense. I'll unconciously not let myself get as close to the person, or I won't realize it but I'm so scared to lose a person I pretened not to care, even if it hurts.

I only have one friend, so I'm walking a bit on eggshells.

 

[Kacey The Grate]

yeahh i guess i do . there's this girl who was being the biggest jerk to my best friend and then denied she said any of it . i pretend to be her "friend" just so i can hear her talk crap about people and then tell them what she said . i'm holding a huge grudge with her xP

 

[MuskratSusie]

I do. But it's weird. Like I won't be straight up mean or nasty to the person, but I won't be my usual self. I'll keep what they did in the back of my mind for a little bit.

That's what I sorta do too.

 

[metsluva57]

Yup.

My "bestfriends" were calling me names etc. on aim. They did the same thing in school but only worse.
I've never forgiven them for that. I'm not mean to them when I see them, I just don't talk to them.

 

[♥Ariel♥]

I do. But it's weird. Like I won't be straight up mean or nasty to the person, but I won't be my usual self. I'll keep what they did in the back of my mind for a little bit.

same same same same same

 

[Tinkerbell424]

I do. But it's weird. Like I won't be straight up mean or nasty to the person, but I won't be my usual self. I'll keep what they did in the back of my mind for a little bit.

Same. & I never forget what they do either.
In some cases, I do hold grudges. Like, I don't speak to my dad cause of certain things hes done and said. It's been 3 years since I've seen him and talked to him face to face.

 

[JarethDrakul]

It depends on what the person did, if its only a minor thing or I know I'lln ever meet them again then I tend to not care.
However, when people I know do something then I do...but only a few people ever get my annoyed style mood....I can hide behind a smile

 

[♥Ariel♥]

it will stay in the back of my mind...then i forget and everything goes back to normal until that same person does something again and i remember it.

 

[MickeyisBeast]

Normally, it's forgive and forget for me, but when it's serious then I do hold a grudge, it's hard not to.