I love this place...my next trip is one year away...but I just get so happy reading about all the nice things other people are doing for their families!! *sigh*
Anyhow, I usually do lots of little surprises for my kids -- they are little so they never know what character meals they are going to. I just book them -- and surprise! I usually get lots of fun stuff to travel with (some Disney, some not - stickers, pens, etc.) I've also sent gift baskets and wine to the room from the Disney Florist. We all enjoyed that.
I decorated our room for my DD's 4th birthday last trip.
Last trip, I also got my DH a pass to the golf tornament and a couple of tee times. He was very surprised!
Next trip I will probably book the Luau to surprise my MIL. She recently got back from Hawaii and she loved it. I'd also liek to surprise DH with a re-hitching....
When we go in 2008 for my 40th birthday

I will book a birthday cruise and surprise my family with it. I'm also thinking about a vow renewal (for real, not just a rehitching...2008 will be 15 years...we'll see.)