Do you Flirt?

[DaisyLynn]

I'm pretty shy, but I flirt. It's what I do, can't help it. But I only flirt when flirted with.

My DH is fine with it, because it's harmless. After all, he's the one who gets all of my funnest flirting!

 

[Thumper_ehhhhh]

Me flirt heck yes. As others have stated only with those whom don't get offended. My wife just shakes her head at me.

 

[PigletsPal2]

Even at my advanced age, I flirt, but only when I know it won't be taken seriously. I worked with a bunch of crazy techies, and they always got a kick out of our silly give and take. Once, though, I batted my eyelashes (subtle, huh?) at one of my guys when I wanted a small favor and he said "I can't remember the last time a woman batted her eyelashes at me - whatever you want? It's yours!"

Queen Colleen

 

[IdesOmarch]

Even at my advanced age, I flirt, but only when I know it won't be taken seriously. I worked with a bunch of crazy techies, and they always got a kick out of our silly give and take. Once, though, I batted my eyelashes (subtle, huh?) at one of my guys when I wanted a small favor and he said "I can't remember the last time a woman batted her eyelashes at me - whatever you want? It's yours!"

Queen Colleen

Women so have all the advantages in our society.

 

[lakelandgal70]

I don't flirt with anyone other than my hubby. But I will chat anyone up that starts chatting with me. If anyone started flirting with me I probably would be so embarrased that I wouldn't know what to do haha

 

[DipsyDoodles]

I won't say I verbally flirt, but if I see a guy who catches my eye, I'm gonna look and maybe smile at him and my body language might change. At work, well, I interact with some of the younger guys from time to time, but it is on a professional level...although there are 1 or 2 who I have gotten to know a little better than the others, and we might laugh about things other than work. Yes I am married, and I would flirt with DH more but if he's not working (2 jobs) he's sleeping, therefore I don't see him except on the weekends.
As long as no lines are crossed, flirting is ok imo.

I'm just curious, I have no problem with people flirting if it's harmless, but when you smile at a guy who catches your eye and he proceeds to walk over to speak with you because he notices you noticing him...what do you do then? I would think it would be an ackward situation at that point, no?

 

[DisneyScraps]

I'm just curious, I have no problem with people flirting if it's harmless, but when you smile at a guy who catches your eye and he proceeds to walk over to speak with you because he notices you noticing him...what do you do then? I would think it would be an ackward situation at that point, no?

I usually work in something about my boyfriend in the first few sentences. They get the message.

We joke that I need to control the flirt or it could be dangerous. We were out one night and my DBF went to the bathroom. I decided when he came walking back to give him the biggest flirt that I had. It was a definitely come hither look and smile. There was a single guy at the table behind us so when I turned and did my business, he thought that I was doing it to him and he sat up straight and got a little puffy. Poor guy, when my DBF arrived a few seconds later he understood what was going on.

Lisa

 

[Liberty Belle]

It depends on my mood, I guess, but when I do, it's subtle. I don't care for overt flirting.

 

[Evil Genius]

Yeah I flirt. Unfortunately, DFi doesn't get it.

 

[Buckalew11]

Women so have all the advantages in our society.

Why do you think Satan tempted Eve with the fruit instead of Adam? He knew if he could get Eve to taste it that SHE could get Adam to taste it.

I usually work in something about my boyfriend in the first few sentences. They get the message.

Lisa

But then one becomes a "tease".

 

[LuvOrlando]

I'm not a flirt, as in I don't turn on the charm for anyone in particular aside from my DH. I am bubbly and friendly and sometimes people confuse that with flirting... soooo totally not the same thing. I am also the first one to get up and dance and love to party but that doesn't make me easy either, count that as another two things people tend to get confused.

Can I ask those of you who do intentionally flirt, what on earth do you do when someone takes you up on it?

 

[wvjules]

I'm not a flirt, as in I don't turn on the charm for anyone in particular aside from my DH. I am bubbly and friendly and sometimes people confuse that with flirting... soooo totally not the same thing. I am also the first one to get up and dance and love to party but that doesn't make me easy either, count that as another two things people tend to get confused.

Can I ask those of you who do intentionally flirt, what on earth do you do when someone takes you up on it?

Flirting is not a proposition.

 

[IdesOmarch]

I'm not a flirt, as in I don't turn on the charm for anyone in particular aside from my DH. I am bubbly and friendly and sometimes people confuse that with flirting... soooo totally not the same thing. I am also the first one to get up and dance and love to party but that doesn't make me easy either, count that as another two things people tend to get confused.

Can I ask those of you who do intentionally flirt, what on earth do you do when someone takes you up on it?

Depends upon how hot they are and if they're wearing heels.

 

[LuvOrlando]

Flirting is not a proposition.

I don't think the word proposition is quite in line with what I meant by take you up on it, I don't think flirts are necessarily going anywhere but I can't imagine never being asked if it's an invitation.

Ides, do you have The Eagles song "Those Shoes" as a ringtone?

 

[dngnb8]

I usually work in something about my boyfriend in the first few sentences. They get the message.

We joke that I need to control the flirt or it could be dangerous. We were out one night and my DBF went to the bathroom. I decided when he came walking back to give him the biggest flirt that I had. It was a definitely come hither look and smile. There was a single guy at the table behind us so when I turned and did my business, he thought that I was doing it to him and he sat up straight and got a little puffy. Poor guy, when my DBF arrived a few seconds later he understood what was going on.

Lisa

Just a note of information. Before I was married, if you said boyfriend, that wouldnt deter me. I was of the opinion, if you aint married, youre fair game. In fact, you can always say husband, even if he is still boyfriend.

Just saying you may be inviting attention that may create an issue with your boy friend.

Hmmm, you just stimulated a new thread...... Off I go to start it.

 

[IdesOmarch]

I don't think the word proposition is quite in line with what I meant by take you up on it, I don't think flirts are necessarily going anywhere but I can't imagine never being asked if it's an invitation.

Ides, do you have The Eagles song "Those Shoes" as a ringtone?

No Lady Gaga, now there's a woman that has some crazy shoes!

 

[happytexasmom]

I don't do it on purpose but people say I am a flirt.

I would never do or say anything that I think would disrespect my DH but I am a friendly person and I will admit that handsome men make me flustered sometimes. I dont think people can help that, we are married not dead.

and as far as other people flirting I dont think there is anything wrong with it, but I do think you will be walking on a thin line and need to be very sure how comfortable their DH/DW are about it

 

[krcit]

I'm not a flirt, as in I don't turn on the charm for anyone in particular aside from my DH. I am bubbly and friendly and sometimes people confuse that with flirting... soooo totally not the same thing. I am also the first one to get up and dance and love to party but that doesn't make me easy either, count that as another two things people tend to get confused.

Can I ask those of you who do intentionally flirt, what on earth do you do when someone takes you up on it?

Takes me up on it? Do you mean flirt back? That's kind of the point isn't it?LOL I am not inappropriate and I make sure they know I am married. In 17 years of marriage, and hundreds of instances of flirting, only one guy became inappropriate and I let him know. He apologized and that was that.

 

[TheIncredibles!]

I flirt with my husband. a lot.

LOL I do that with my DH too A wink and a butt grab or a quick flash as I am walking past him if there are no "little eyes" looking.......

 

[Molliday]

I found myself flirting when my first marriage was crumbling. I've been remarried for almost eight years, and I don't even have the urge to now.