Do you Flirt?

[wvjules]

I see no problem with a little harmless flirting even if you are in a relationship. If that ever crosses into sexual type flirting then that crosses the line but for the most part a little flirting is a non-issue.

 

[IdesOmarch]

But what if the stranger has rockin' heels?

Then IMO they are asking that you flirt with them. Otherwise, they wouldn't have bought such rockin heels in the first place.

 

[Goofyluver]

Then IMO they are asking that you flirt with them. Otherwise, they wouldn't have bought such rockin heels in the first place.

My chacha shoes are for me, not for you. If you want a pair, go buy your own.

 

[MIGrandma]

I am married. I do not think it is appropriate for a married person to flirt. I'm sure I'm probably in the minority here.

I would be in that minority with you then!

I'll join the minority as well!

DH and I flirt with each other, but I have no desire to flirt with anyone else.

 

[brockash]

Around strangers, I'm pretty shy and really don't like talking to ppl., so I barely speak to ppl. I don't know. Having said that, with ppl. I work with or know for a reason, depending on if I get along with them, I might talk a lot to them. I really don't flirt anymore (have 2 kids been married for over a decade,) but I'm sure some ppl. may think it comes off that way when I speak to friends/co-workers, but they'd think the same no matter if I were talking to a man or a woman; it's just the way I interact with ppl. that don't annoy me

 

[GinnyEmma]

BUMMER! Lucky guy.... Oh wait, was I flirtin'?

Lol,

 

[Buckalew11]

So a woman who wears "rockin' shoes" is wanting to be flirted with?!

No, I don't flirt but I'm nice and I think sometimes that gets construed as flirting esp. if the man is interested.

I'm not interested in anyone but DH. Does he flirt? Not in front of me but he's very friendly and was voted class flirt in HS so I'm sure he has his moments.

 

[IdesOmarch]

So a woman who wears "rockin' shoes" is wanting to be flirted with?!

No, I don't flirt but I'm nice and I think sometimes that gets construed as flirting esp. if the man is interested.

I'm not interested in anyone but DH. Does he flirt? Not in front of me but he's very friendly and was voted class flirt in HS so I'm sure he has his moments.

I was really just joking about that, the whole "well if she didn't want men to notice her she shouldn't have been wearing yada yada" argument.

I think it can be true. Some women may want a man, or men in general (like if they're going out) to notice them, so they'll wear rocking heels and a short dress or whatever. But I think most women that dress up just do so because they like the heels, they like how they look in them etc., its for them and their sense of style/fashion. But it does attract I would say 99.999% of healthy males IMO so women in rocking heels beware of the dog.

 

[Acklander]

oh yeah, I'm a born flirt. I always have been and always will be. It's just part of who I am. Doesn't bother dh at all.

 

[IdesOmarch]

oh yeah, I'm a born flirt. I always have been and always will be. It's just part of who I am. Doesn't bother dh at all.

Specifics please. (Examples)

 

[Buckalew11]

I was really just joking about that, the whole "well if she didn't want men to notice her she shouldn't have been wearing yada yada" argument.

I think it can be true. Some women may want a man, or men in general (like if they're going out) to notice them, so they'll wear rocking heels and a short dress or whatever. But I think most women that dress up just do so because they like the heels, they like how they look in them etc., its for them and their sense of style/fashion. But it does attract I would say 99.999% of healthy males IMO so women in rocking heels beware of the dog.

Oh. I see.

 

[Acklander]

Specifics please. (Examples)

LOL - don't think it can be described, you have to see it to appreciate it

By nature, I'm very outgoing and enjoy joking around.

 

[dngnb8]

you have to see it to appreciate it

Okay..... Oh wait, that wasnt an invite? Sorry, was just flirten...

 

[jsmith]

i adore my husband-we have been married for years. and yes i flirt. i work with soldiers-the ablitiy to bat my baby blues ans smile sweetly gets alot of things done that wouldnt get done otherwise.

 

[The_Alice]

There's a difference between being a good conversationalist and harmless flirting. However in the South, where I'm from, they usually bleed over into each other.

 

[MoonFaerie]

oh yeah, I'm a born flirt. I always have been and always will be. It's just part of who I am. Doesn't bother dh at all.

That. Dh is too though, and we've known each other since we were 10 so we're both extremely comfortable with that aspect of each other.

We flirt plenty with each other too. People that don't know us well are surprised that we've been together for 13+ years, since we still act like it's a new relationship.

 

[njmom47]

I won't say I verbally flirt, but if I see a guy who catches my eye, I'm gonna look and maybe smile at him and my body language might change. At work, well, I interact with some of the younger guys from time to time, but it is on a professional level...although there are 1 or 2 who I have gotten to know a little better than the others, and we might laugh about things other than work. Yes I am married, and I would flirt with DH more but if he's not working (2 jobs) he's sleeping, therefore I don't see him except on the weekends.
As long as no lines are crossed, flirting is ok imo.

 

[Rora]

I flirt with my DH. That's it.

 

[FlightlessDuck]

Do you like to flirt?

No.

Do you think its wrong to flirt if you have a girlfriend/boyfriend, wife/husband?

Yes,

 

[NikitaZee]

I have a very flirtatious nature, always have. My husband takes a very dim view of married people flirting, so I don't do it (except with him). There are times that I want to, but don't, out of respect for his feelings.