We did a 3 night in April and we dressed up...mainly just eye patches, skull/crossbone jewelry, pirate hats...My husband is a Tampa Bay fan, so he wore jeans and TB Polo with the pirate symbol. I gave him a HUGE temporary tattoo, and he wore an eyepatch and the pirate bandana as a 'do' rag...When we walked in to PC for dinner, it seemed that we were the only ones dresses! There were a few. But my DD10 immediately removed her eye patch and gold jewlery
My DH kinda made fun of me for a minute for making everyone dress up, but after some around us started giving us compliments and then putting on their bandanas (provided by
DCL), we laughed it off.
Funny thing is, I have a hard time getting DH in for a family portrait. I have my 8X10 photo of us dressed up in Pirate attire at dinner that night proudly hung in the living room for everyone to see us as PIRATES!!!
I will most definetly dress everyone up again, but I don't think DH will go for the tattoo again, though

I say go for it. Maybe for the parents, have them dress in normal clothing and add pirate accessories. DD10 was able to transform her outfit quickly as she was embarrassed
Just remember, you are there to have fun, and being in character is a lot of fun!!