Next spring we are planning on telling DD about our Disney trip for her birthday. The problem is that we are going to be having her birthday party at our house and the neighbor kids will more than likely be invited. I guess the real problem is that I'm pretty sure the parents of some of the kids would never in a million years be able to afford a Disney trip for their kids. So do we feel bad about letting DD open the tickets, etc with the other kids there or do we just let DD enjoy her birthday? Also, when the neighbor kids do find out about the trip, and start asking our kids to bring them something back, how do we handle that? I really don't want to limit the kids friends by income levels but at the same time I don't want our kids to spend their vacation feeling guilty because they haven't bought anything for the neighbors.