Pretty clear as mud as to which way you prefer IMO.
The way you're coming across is as though it's a black and white issue. That bigger=better, and smaller = not. It's not black and white for me.
Would you prefer they add a 3rd gate (in your case a Marvel park) or not?
I don't care if they add a 3rd gate or not. I love DLR just the way it is, and as I said would continue to visit it whether they add another gate or not.
Adding a 3rd park doesn't automatically make DLR better. It would/will depend on the quality of the park. One would hope they wouldn't make the mistakes they did with DCA a second time around.
Until said 3rd gate is built, there's no way to say whether it would add to the DLR experience (for me) or not, because *for me* bigger doesn't equal better.
Again-if you can now honestly say you would stop (or start) DL from adding a Marvel park (if it were up to you) then again-I have no problem with that.
All of my posts have specifically said I'd stop them from building as many resorts as WDW. I don't think it's necessary at DLR, but then I don't have a problem staying across the street at the Tropicana for $100/night and being at DLR's turnstiles in 5 minutes. I *like* that about DLR. We don't spend a lot of time at our hotel when we're at Disney, so expansive resorts aren't a priority for us. Even on this last trip, at Yacht Club, it was hard to find time to go to StormAlong Bay. I really enjoyed it, but when I only have 5 days at WDW, and 4 park days, I'm not going to miss out on park time for swimming (especially w/o kids). One of the things I dislike at WDW is that to have that short of a travel time from hotel room to park entrance it is 2-3x (or more) more expensive than that. And even many of the deluxe resorts aren't a 5 min walk to park gates.
Keep in mind-you don't have to visit the 3rd gate, or stay at any new resorts.
I'm well aware of that. But if Disney builds new resorts, they're going to build them close to the property. Which, as I stated above, is one of the things I like most about DLR - quick travel time to turnstiles w/o the WDW price-tag. So yes, I would stop them from adding more resorts, because more resorts would pretty much guarantee that those hotel options would disappear.
We like DL a lot as it is as well, just a couple days was more than enough. That's why we prefer they would add on, Marvel/Epcot/AK anything-just not nearly enough for a 10 to 12 day stay which is our winter escape from work.
Again, our POVs come down to vacationing differently. Even in WDW, I wouldn't be at WDW for 10-12 days without doing anything else in the area (universal, sea world, cape canaveral, etc). So, to me, having 3-4 days at DLR and then exploring other areas of California isn't any different.
My main point was that DLR is magical just as it is. It may be smaller than WDW, but smaller does not equal less magic. Adding a 3rd gate may add to the experience, it may not - but DLR is awesome just as it is.