Lorelei528
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Thanks Steph! Eoghan works for a moving company, so sometimes we are stressed out due to $ issues too. Because it's physical labor, he's tired a lot (and he gets cranky)...I try hard not to nag him when he's tired, but sometimes I just really need his help with something etc...(this is not what caused the argument the other night, but just an example).Sorry you guys are fighting, and no that's not too much info... We fight all the time before vacation... We both have stressful jobs, and with him being a contractor, let's just say things weren't like they were. He's fortunate he has work, but we just have to watch things closer! During the middle of all the stuff with the funeral today, he says "Darrell (an employee) called and there's no electricity at the shop... Did you pay the bill?" Okay first of all, yes, I paid the bill... It's on draft. Second of all, really, during the funeral, did you have to take that phone call?... Come to find out, we have about 8 accounts for houses under construction, and all of them are on draft, but for some reason, the utility company dropped the draft on our office. UGH! And then, he has the stress of trying to line up construction continuing while we are gone, and well, we are just better off not to talk to each other. We have left on trips not speaking to each other before, and then we laugh about it. But, hopefully things will blow over for you guys. I'm sure it will.
It's tough, we are still growing as we've only been together for a little more than 3 years total.
It just made me so sad to be fighting like that like 2 days before we have to leave..
Your post made me feel SO much better, so thank you, thank you!

Also, Jen, thanks for the sweet words!

I might not be on much today as I have LOADS of work to do and it's my last day (we leave the house at 7:45am tomorrow morning to drop my car at my mom's and then the car service is picking us up to take us to the airport! Our flight leaves at 11:25am)

I can't check the boards too easily from my phone, but I have some cell numbers (Jackie, Alex, Jen, Steph...) and then there's FB too, which I can check!
Is there a plan for MNSSHP? If not, I will text those of you whose numbers I have, so we can at least try to meet up! OMG!! I still have to finish packing and go shopping tonight and I can't leave work early! Eesh...
Can't wait for the cruise!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!