Disney Wonder Sept 3-7, 2006 Part 4

[LCTsMom]

How's life in Pittsburgh these days, Vicki?

 

[purplern]

How's life in Pittsburgh these days, Vicki?

Ok!

 

[Captain Logan]

hey, hey!

 

[Piecey]

So I know I'm overdramatic and I'm counting on you guys to calm me down..

Stalker guy broke down Sunday (crying, couldn't help customers and you know.. do his job.) and the management yelled at my brother because he caused it. By getting my tickets for me so I could avoid stalker guy. And my brother went off on me, told me to cancel the trip.. I was the last person in the world to turn on him and all this other stuff that made me really upset and made me start crying so I'm pissed enough to finally do something about it..

I called Corporate because all the managers at the movie theater know me and wouldn't do anything but now I feel like I'm just causing a scene. It's not right, to me.. though I guess I'm just the victim and I'll always feel shunned? I don't know what to do. But I've never been like this.. never so angry/upset that I shook and could rip the heads off of anyone who got in my way.

 

[Blackunicorn]

So I know I'm overdramatic and I'm counting on you guys to calm me down..

Stalker guy broke down Sunday (crying, couldn't help customers and you know.. do his job.) and the management yelled at my brother because he caused it. By getting my tickets for me so I could avoid stalker guy. And my brother went off on me, told me to cancel the trip.. I was the last person in the world to turn on him and all this other stuff that made me really upset and made me start crying so I'm pissed enough to finally do something about it..

I called Corporate because all the managers at the movie theater know me and wouldn't do anything but now I feel like I'm just causing a scene. It's not right, to me.. though I guess I'm just the victim and I'll always feel shunned? I don't know what to do. But I've never been like this.. never so angry/upset that I shook and could rip the heads off of anyone who got in my way.

Patsy, seriously. This is just wrong. This guy is seriously scary. What kind of a freak writes that stuff about you in his blog and then breaks down crying because you avoided him? This is not right, not even a little bit. I'm really scared for you. And he's old enough to know better! Someone needs to have a talk with him, and that stupid manager is NOT helping things by sheltering the guy. I don't blame you one bit for being so mad. Stupid brother. Doesn't he know the saying, no one messes with my family? You let me know if he's ever in my neighborhood, I'll kick him in the shins for you.

 

[Piecey]

Thanks, Dawn.

I don't know what to do. I want to file a formal complaint with corporate. Because the local management wouldn't do anything. IF they were going to, they would have by now.

But I can't help feel that I'm being extreme and shouldn't do it. I'm just frustrated. I've shrugged all his crap off long enough.

To be fair, I was having a bad day and I started in on my brother when all that came out.. they he got in trouble at work for looking out for me and etc.

 

[JLSE50]

Thanks, Dawn.

I don't know what to do. I want to file a formal complaint with corporate. Because the local management wouldn't do anything. IF they were going to, they would have by now.

But I can't help feel that I'm being extreme and shouldn't do it. I'm just frustrated. I've shrugged all his crap off long enough.

To be fair, I was having a bad day and I started in on my brother when all that came out.. they he got in trouble at work for looking out for me and etc.

So sorry to read about this stressful situation!! Did you take some action yet? Did you call Corporate?

I agree with Dawn, this is not normal behavior nor is it OK for an employee to stalk customers. Someone needs to talk this guy down.

Could you go to a different theater? You would not know everyone, but that could be a good thing.

One of the good things about moving to Florida, working for Chase at Disney or for Disney and letting Rink board with Erica is that the stalker would not know where you were......

Best wishes on finding a solution and KEEPING PATSY SAFE!!!
Jan

 

[Piecey]

No, I can't decide if calling corporate is a good idea or not.

I can't decide if I'm being rational or not, lol.

And no.. small WV town = one theatre. lol. I'm not going to go anymore until I resolve this though.

There is one out in Marietta but they don't have regular hours/regular movies.. nor does it smell regular.

 

[Piecey]

Oh god.

I was so mad earlier I unblocked him online long enough to send him a message to tell him I hated him and it wasn't going to ever change. That at that moment I'd never hated anyone more..
And a friend of mine who puts up with him just sent me this conversation she is having with him:

Dustin (11:49:21 PM): down deep she could feel the same way, that's why she hates me so much, because she hates that I make her feel something & she won't acknowledge it so she hurts me to try to make it better
Dustin (11:49:31 PM): I don't want ANYONE else
Dustin (11:49:41 PM): i'd rather just spend my life alone than not be with the one i'd do anything to be with

*edited to add*
Dustin (12:10:00 AM): we'll be together someday & when that does happen, i'll be happy

Dustin (12:12:52 AM): i'm trying to get my permit soon
Dustin (12:13:53 AM): i'm doing these things not just for me, but so we can be together when she realizes we're good together & could have a great relationship, engagement, marriage & family


...WHAT?!

 

[Piecey]

Oh, goody. More.

Dustin (12:14:57 AM): I am the guy for her just like she's the girl for me
Dustin (12:15:08 AM): but I need to work to get her to realize this..

is it just me or does that seem a bit threateningly scary?

 

[Blackunicorn]

The Travel Channel is having a show on the World's Best Cruise Ships Thursday at 1:00pm (MDT) and Disney is included.

 

[JLSE50]

Oh, goody. More.

Dustin (12:14:57 AM): I am the guy for her just like she's the girl for me
Dustin (12:15:08 AM): but I need to work to get her to realize this..

is it just me or does that seem a bit threateningly scary?

Yup, scary.
I don't get it.

But we do have a college friend who mentions every so often that I married the wrong fellow. That gets uncomfortable but he also says that he would not break up a relationship. So, as long as DH does not leave me or die, I am OK. If he is gone, I am SURE that this guy would be on my doorstep and I am not interested.

I think a call to corporate makes some sense, even if you do it as a question--what should I do? There is a guy at your theater who is making it uncomfortable for me to live in this town, go to your theater, etc. Maybe asking them??? What do you think?
Jan

 

[Blackunicorn]

Oh, goody. More.

Dustin (12:14:57 AM): I am the guy for her just like she's the girl for me
Dustin (12:15:08 AM): but I need to work to get her to realize this..

is it just me or does that seem a bit threateningly scary?

PATSY of course it's not just you, I've already said that this guy scares me to death. If it helps any, I just ran this by my husband and he says you need to get a restraining order. He says document everything! So it's not just female hysteria. **edited to add--NOT that I think that "female hysteria" is a valid phrase or concept (it drives me nuts when people say that) but I was pointing out that a guy is uncomfortable too, and normally my guy is pretty oblivious.

You know, I have to agree, getting you out of town is sounding better and better. How about a subscription to Netflix? Keep away from that nutcase!

 

[JLSE50]

Oh, goody. More.

Dustin (12:14:57 AM): I am the guy for her just like she's the girl for me
Dustin (12:15:08 AM): but I need to work to get her to realize this..

is it just me or does that seem a bit threateningly scary?

MALIFICENT!! WHERE ARE YOU???
Maybe a PM to the lawyer?>?
How about that?
Jan

PS: Thanks for the photos Patsy, I finished them today!
Off to bed----T-I-R-E-D-----

 

[Piecey]

PATSY of course it's not just you, I've already said that this guy scares me to death. If it helps any, I just ran this by my husband and he says you need to get a restraining order. He says document everything! So it's not just female hysteria. **edited to add--NOT that I think that "female hysteria" is a valid phrase or concept (it drives me nuts when people say that) but I was pointing out that a guy is uncomfortable too, and normally my guy is pretty oblivious.

You know, I have to agree, getting you out of town is sounding better and better. How about a subscription to Netflix? Keep away from that nutcase!

You have to have been physically intimate with someone in the state of WV to file for a restraining order.

 

[Piecey]

Hey.. think positively.

At least at the bank I have a panic button!

 

[Blackunicorn]

You have to have been physically intimate with someone in the state of WV to file for a restraining order.

UnBELIEVEable. Come live in Colorado.

Dawn

 

[Blackunicorn]

Hey.. think positively.

At least at the bank I have a panic button!

 

[sugaswim]

no more dentist for a while! yay!

morning guys!

 

[LCTsMom]

no more dentist for a while! yay!

morning guys!

Hi Holly

Great news about the dentist!