Wear your wedding attire! It will be the only time you'll be able to wear it more than once!
as for favors and stuff...
first-dont put balloons on the table if you are going to put candles on the table too-they will pop when they get low enough
2. a neat little thing to do is to make flower pens (a person I work with had a family reunion and used these as favors)
Take a silk flower-cut the stem to be about an inch long....take a clear bic pen and floral tape...take the flower to the pen with floral tape and put the top on it. Make your label-the usual groom bride married date tag-and use that as the leaf...
3. have a luau...you're getting married at the polynesian-go with the theme. If you do this-you wouldnt have to wear your wedding atire-but I would put "Hawian Dress" on the invites-have some fun and hawain shirts, shorts or even grass skirts...enjoy it!
Have a pig roast with all the fixings!
4. DO NOT DO KAREOKE...this was done at a wedding I just went to -it was terrible! either that or I wasnt drunk enough!
5. definately use your cake topper from disney...
6. have photos on a table somewhere for guests to look at...that way they can share the expirence....
7. If you want to have the fairytale all over again....go with super formal...maybe a black tie affair.
8. Keep a blank scrapbook (not a top loading one though) Have people at your reception leave advice, good wishes, etc...it will be a great keepsake!
this is all I can come up with for now-I hope it helps...
jlp651
"Always the planner never a bride"