Mackenzie Click-Mickelson
Chugging along the path of life
- Joined
- Oct 23, 2015
- Messages
- 29,699
I grew up with a friend whose mom viewed the word crap as a curse word along with darn it, or dang-it was difficult for me honestly because those were not curse words in my family. Those were appropriate alternatives to curse words lol.I can sympathize with people not wanting their kids to hear much “bad” language before they’re old enough to choose their own words rather than simply repeat them.
That said, the only “rights” in the situation are for them to speak, and for you to speak a reminder that there’s children present or a request they stop. There’s no “right” to not hear something you consider offensive, because that’s entirely in the eye of the beholder.
Profanity is something that people of all ages have issues with or don't have issues with. My husband's step-sister (no longer by marriage though not by blood in the first place), her husband and her brother all have zero issues cursing up a storm with their kids around. My family, who is not really a prim and proper type family, was shocked the first time they heard a curse word out of me (and it slipped out because I know they don't really curse). Aside from my 2 cousins (age 19 and 14) who weren't even there I was the youngest person there (aged 30 at that time). One time I was at a bar (where no one under the age of 21 was allowed admittence after X time) and I said a mild curse word at my table. This family glared at me with daggers in their eyes...they were in the bar after the time that kids were no longer allowed in--you could stay if you were there but no one under the age of 21 was allowed in after X time. I'm sure in their minds they were like "oh but the children". I didn't even see the children and it was adult time by that point so..
With the gondolas I wouldn't intervene. I would speak with my children afterwards but it's not something I would make something of it out and I'm not one to shy normally away from confrontation (I do know when it's not the time nor the place though). And like my above story sometimes people's definition of profanity varies though yes I do think there are a few words majority agree are considered profanity.