loveysbydesign
I can pinch a penny so hard you can hear it scream
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Wow, all these stories really get my goat. When I was a teenager, my family dentist (who I've been seeing since I first got teeth) would find cavities every single visit. My parents were angry and I was so ashamed of my mouth full of metal fillings. We trusted them completely and did whatever they said. On my last visit to them, they had 3 cavities that they wanted to be filled, but I didn't have the time and moved out of state to go to college and grad school. Because of all the pain and agony, I had developed a large dentist phobia and without my parents to make my appointments, I avoided going to the dentist. Ten years later, I found a new dentist (recommended by DH) and after nearly 8 years, they have not found a single cavity and told me my teeth look great.
I told my parents this story since they were still going to him. They both needed such "extensive" cleanings that they were going to him four times a year. Of course, insurance doesn't cover more than 2 visits. He had filled their heads full of scary stories about their teeth falling out if they didn't get the treatments. He used my grandmother as an example, since he had pulled out all her teeth and gave her dentures. Knowing what I know now, I wonder if he screwed her too. My parents thought there must be something wrong with my new dentist...that he was missing something, because obviously the old dentist couldn't be bad (in their eyes).
I agree, get a second opinion and don't tell the 2nd dentist what the first one said. IT does seem wrong to have someone diagnose a problem when they have a financial interest in finding problems. This is not only a problem with dentists, but with auto mechanics too.
OMG...are you sure you aren't me??? Everytime I'd go I'd have at least 3-4 cavities. Plus my mom made me get them filled without novocaine to teach me a lesson about taking care of my teeth and not getting cavities. It was horrible!

My Dad still goes there and has all kinds of issues but is so stubborn and head strong he won't go anywhere else!

