"Both Hawaii and Baltimore have high levels of poverty and atrocious schools. I knew of several parents in Hawaii who sent their kids back to the mainland to live with relatives b/c attending school there (even private, IF they could afford it) was so detrimental to their educations. Reading levels of Hawaiian students are consistently a few years behind those of average mainland schools... Also, one thing I will always remember about Hawaii is going to the Wal-Mart in Waipahu and noticing the kids that just run free, all over the store! You could walk in at 2 am any day of the week, (and we frequently did) and the place would be PACKED, and there would
still be kids running around like chickens with their heads cut off!! You just got used to kids bumping into you while you shopped.

The culture there is very different from "mainstream" culture. A vast majority of natives don't really push their kids to get an education, and there is a lot of gang issues with the "kids"."
Okay, Princess this is where you have lost me. Your generalizations about education and schools in Hawaii (both public and private) are just plain wrong. I can tell you that there are great private schools in Hawaii, top notch in fact. Ever heard of Iolani, Punahou, Sacred Hearts, Le Jardin, Academy of the Pacific? And that is just on Oahu. My brother and I were lucky enough to attend private school, so kudos to our parents for that. My brother is working on a Masters degree and I already have my Masters in Elementary Ed, so obviously our Hawaiian private school education did not hinder us at all. While not everyone has the kind of resources it takes to give a private education to their children, we also have blue ribbon public schools in Hawaii. That's right, you heard me, blue ribbon. I did my student teaching at one of them, so I know first hand that they exist. Your generalizations are not only incorrect, but frankly ignorant. There isn't a state in the union that has 100% blue ribbon public schools; there are struggling schools everywhere, and to imply that kids who live in Hawaii are somehow grossly behind everyone else in their education is a claim you are not qualified to make.
Secondly, as far as unsupervised kids running around like maniacs in stores is concerned, that happens EVERYWHERE. In fact, I just went to two Ross Stores in Orlando a month ago and there were at least a half dozen kids at either store running around, screaming, and basically wreaking havoc while their moms calmly and casually looked through clothing racks. I about lost my marbles because I could barely hear myself think with all the mayhem. There weren't any locals/Hawaiians around at those stores.
To say that the culture in Hawaiian is not "mainstream", is hilarious to me. We aren't aliens from another planet. Just because the way some things are done in Hawaii are not the way you are used to doesn't mean they aren't mainstream. Who says your way is mainstream?