So in that case the new system works better for your family.

Nothing wrong for liking that it works for you. What sucks for our family is being there from RD to closing and still only able to get 3 FPs. Disney took our choices (yes I know we could just not go

) away from us (getting a FP for TSM & RnR, Soarin' & TT or more than one for our favorite). Nothing we do will make that better. We already do RD. The way it looks to our family is, we all had the choice, even though some didn't take it. It really sucks to take our choices and limit us to make it easier for those that wish to spend less time in the park. But if you are one of those families, then it not wrong for you to like the system as Disney has set it. But you have to admit that calling the new system more "fair" really isn't true either.
It is like when we go to the beach and want a lounge chairs for our family close to the pool. I know when they open the pool gates, those spots go quickly. I would never expect the resort to tell a family of 6 that was there when the gates were open that they could only have 3 chairs because they were saving 3 for me to show up at lunch. Would I enjoy it if they did, sure, but it isn't something I would expect. Not saying that is what you think either. But being that family that is standing at the gate, looking at the empty chairs and your family of 6, it sucks for the resort to tell them, so sorry, you still can only have 3. Our family just prefers first come first serve. Now that has left me searching for chairs at the pool for our family because I do sleep in when we are at the beach. But that was my choice and no ones fault by my own.