First of all, congrats!
I wanted to give you a couple of tips before your wedding cruise. My husband and I had a wonderful time but there were a couple of hiccups the day of the ceremony (1-20-06). We learned a very important lesson when getting married on a cruise ship... always, ALWAYS have a backup for EVERYTHING!
As part of the wedding package they will press your dress and your husband-to-be's suit. Be sure that when everything is returned, you actually have everything. Somehow, my hubby's suit pants went missing from the Laundry. Luckily he had another pair of nice pants to wear (and I even had a backup dress from the civil ceremony if anything had happened in that department).
Also, you might want to make sure to have a spare bouquet (I had made a silk arrangement for the civil ceremony in the terminal). I had chosen the rose bouquet, boutineres(?) and corsages and they were beautiful. The only problem is that since we were married on the final full day of the cruise, the flowers were a week old by this point and one of the corsages and one of the boutineres fell to bits.
Don't think everything was all doom and gloom - the photographer was amazing and took fabulous pictures. Be prepared to go through the pictures quickly at the end of the day in order to get all of your enlargements requests back to the Shutters crew! I had about an hour to go through 350 pictures and pick out my six favorites for enlargements.
I loved our reception at Palo's - as part of your package you have dinner there that evening. When we did the galley tour we actually got the see the pastry chef making our cake! We had a wedding group of 14 so my DH and I had everyone come to dinner for our wedding dinner. We had the captain's room at Palo's - very nice!
Pre-wedding I went up the salon to get my hair done - I wouldn't suggest anything elaborate - it's usually pretty windy! That being said, I also would suggest if you are going to do a veil, stick to something not too full since the veil will attack!
If you have any other questions I'll be happy to help. Things may have changed in the two and a half years since I got married but probably not too much. Oh, and if they haven't changed the location of the wedding ceremony on Castaway Cay it is at the patio area of the Head's Up bar - it has a nice overlook of the ship.
Dorie