Our cruise and wedding are now over and in the main, everything was great.
We changed our wedding co-ordinator onboard from Andreia to Michelle. She is normally the concierge host, but has trained in weddings too .. As we were staying concierge, we got talking to her and we were pleased she offered to take over as we hadn't clicked with Andreia at all.
We wrote our own vows as we wanted something personal, this worked well but we should have taken up the offer of using a microphone as people at the back couldn't hear us. We also re-wrote the words for Captain John as we didn't want so much romantic clap trap for our wedding! Bear in mind that he is not allowed to mention the words alcohol or bar in any speech (or words to the same effect!). we had to change them slightly because of this but all was good and he was very accommodating.
I typed out the entire wording plus added in who was saying what, so it read easily for him. I didn't type our vows on there, just put 'groom says own vows'. It helped Captain John keep a note of where he was in the ceremony and order.
Keys was great as a setting .. We opted to not have an aisle runner or a change of chairs to the white ones. Nobody would have noticed any difference I'm sure so I'm glad we stuck with our decision. We had the bar open afterwards for the hour reception, but it went so quickly, I didn't even get a chance to say hello to all of our guests (56 of them in the end). In answer to whoever asked how so many people were able to take 2 weeks off from work to join us, please remember we're from the UK and it's not uncommon for people to have 6 weeks annual leave allowance. We are very lucky here!
So, music came from my IPad in the end, no leads required as they had them already. Our best man took the iPad up there a few days before to test things out (Michelle sorted this). I had named my playlists very obviously, so the sound man didn't need to think too much .. We had 'aisle bride', 'arrival music for guests' etc. very easy.
We were very lucky that as we took a group shot on the atrium stairs, Daisy Duck walked along deck 4 and saw us. Everyone started waving at her to come down into the photo and she did. Free character photo with all of our guests although I haven't seen the result yet! I must say that
DCL timings are pretty rubbish ... Our ceremony was 4pm, so our reception was until 5pm. Our dinner was at 6pm so no time to get the photos we wanted without rushing around. A rethink would be a grand idea.
That was all the good stuff, now for the bad.
10 minutes before my collection time, we take the dress out of the bag to find 2 big black boot prints on the train. DCL had steamed it for me and returned it that afternoon so I had not seen it since the day I boarded 6 days previously. I was mortified as you can imagine, but even though the laundry manager rushed up to see, there was nothing he could do in such a short space of time.
My flowers were completely the wrong colour. This made me really mad as it's not hard to find the correct colours in Barcelona in September. I requested the tropical bouquet which should have been hot pink, orange and yellow .. I got purple, green and yellow. The groom and his best men had hot pink ties and handkerchiefs in the tropical colours, my mum, who walked me down the aisle, had worn a hot pink dress and our grandwizards (aged 8 and 5) had been bought dresses to match the colours too. All wrong and I spent most of the time for photos holding the flowers out of the way. Really disappointing. I have written to DCL about these things.
So, that's about it really, I'll post a photo later.
Joa