CampbellScot
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I think I have it perfected! One of my student teachers said to me, "I just don't understand it.....all you do is look at them that funny way and they do what you want them to do." I patiently explained to her that it took weeks of groundwork at the beginning of school enforcing the rules consistently (and the students learning that I say what I mean and mean what I say) before raising my eyebrow and looking over the rim of my glasses had the magical effect it does today! I think I may have sprained my eyebrow because of over-use (with the end of school for students being the 30th of this month) I wonder how you ice an eyebrow!![]()
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Yep, that is the TRICK!!! You have to put your foot down firmly and consistently in the beginning. Make it clear that you will not budge. Only after that groundwork will the eyebrow work! Gotta do the work if you want and imposing look to actually do something!

I was the LD resource teacher and he had NO disabilities at all, except his parents which really were big disabilities! The district is excellent at servicing students even if they don't actually qualify for anything. Administration did do it's best to contain the parents. The secretaries knew they were not to be put through to our phones in our rooms, they were never allowed to "roam" the school to get to our classes, etc. Thankfully our principal was excellent and was able to keep everything calm for the most part. It really is amazing though the things parents try to get away with! It never fails to shock me some of the things parents think should go on in a school. I would love to see some of them try and walk a day in a teacher's (or any other school personnel) shoes.
I will say, on a positive note, that even though I stay home now with my girls, teaching is a wonderful and rewarding job and I loved every minute of it. Like any other job you just have those moments that make you go hmmm. It keeps it interesting!
You are so right. I would be bored out of mind without all the daily "battles" with the characters I meet throughout the year!!!
Goodness your Lydia is SUCH a gorgeous girl!!!

The Binki Fairy visited our house for both of my girls. She takes all the binkis and leaves a present. It's very exciting. If she accidentally leaves a binki behind, you can't use it or she will take your presents back! Oh, dear! No one wants that to happen!
She's very popular in our family. My DN even dressed like her for Halloween one year!
I LOVE the Binki fairy!!! She works very well...unless mom overrides her...*ahem*

I've worked on tough "binki" cases before. Really, if rewarding and/or the Binki Fairy don't work, the best approach is to simply say "No more binki", throw them out and don't ever buy another one. Your kiddo may cry and be upset, but she'll get over it. She won't be traumatized for life. This is a time of emotional growth...and this is how it happens! She'll be far more traumatized as a high schooler with a binki habit! (I had a college roommate who sucked her thumb...constantly...it was weird...her thumb of choice was all withered and gross looking...seriously...ick) Mom and dad have to be tough and very firm. If there are tantrums, there needs to be consequences. Mean business! Your child WILL get over it. Once a child is old enough to talk through her binki, it's time to throw it out. It can cause pretty serious speech and dental issues.
i know. I'm very wicked.
