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I have another update on the family I am praying for. Mom had an MRI yesterday. They now have a better understanding of her injuries. She has both punctured and collapsed lungs, broken collar bone, broken shoulder, crushed pelvis and several crushed vertebrae. She has a breathing tube inserted in her neck. They are trying to stabilizer her enough for surgery tomorrow to insert several metal rods to help support her body enough to be able to sit up. She has a less than 10% chance of ever walking again. As some of the swelling around the spinal column is going down, she has started having movements in one of her arms. There is no feeling below her chest.

Last night, the family made the difficult decision to tell her about her daughter.As this decision was made after my kids left, I don't know how she took it.

Funeral arrangements are still pending, but Helen's death will enable someone else to continue in their life. Some of her organs were donated.

This has been a particularly trying time on us all, but we are determined to rise above it and carry on.

Thank you so much for everyone's prayers and good wishes. I cannot begin to tell you how much this has helped!

From today forward, I will not be posting any more updates. To anyone who is interested, I will be glad to PM. But I am tired. I want and NEED to see more sewing!

In closing, please remember, we are not given any guarantee on how long we have on this earth. Live each day as if it were your last! And tell everyone that matters to you how much they mean to you!


Nini
 
Well- it looks like some prayers are already being answered for you! I will be including you and your little Grace in my prayers as well. Hope all goes well for you on Wednesday. :hug:

Thanks:hug:

She is too cute!!!


Oh goodness!! That is rough! My DD had 2 surgeries before she was 2, and it was so hard seeing her sick. Thankfully she was better after the surgeries. I hope your daughter is the same way. Poor baby!
I wouldn't have let them draw the blood again either. They tried to draw blood on my DD to test for high cholesterol at her last well visit, and couldn't get the vein and I made them stop. They must have thought I was the most horrible woman ever, but I wasn't about to let them torture my child over a test I thought was unnecessary. Does that blood condition run in your family? I know that I have a horrible time when they try to draw my blood, so I figure it is why it is the same with my DD.

I am glad I am not the only mom to second guess blood work. I will go back if we have to. I am calling the doctor this morning. They were out of the office when we were at the hospital yesterday so I couldn't talk to her. I just don't see why we have to repeat the test for the third time this week when we know it will be high again due to the condition we just found out about. Babies shouldn't know the words blood work. She told her sister that the doctor cut her arms off with a needle. Drama queen !
 
I have another update on the family I am praying for. Mom had an MRI yesterday. They now have a better understanding of her injuries. She has both punctured and collapsed lungs, broken collar bone, broken shoulder, crushed pelvis and several crushed vertebrae. She has a breathing tube inserted in her neck. They are trying to stabilizer her enough for surgery tomorrow to insert several metal rods to help support her body enough to be able to sit up. She has a less than 10% chance of ever walking again. As some of the swelling around the spinal column is going down, she has started having movements in one of her arms. There is no feeling below her chest.

Last night, the family made the difficult decision to tell her about her daughter.As this decision was made after my kids left, I don't know how she took it.

Funeral arrangements are still pending, but Helen's death will enable someone else to continue in their life. Some of her organs were donated.

This has been a particularly trying time on us all, but we are determined to rise above it and carry on.

Thank you so much for everyone's prayers and good wishes. I cannot begin to tell you how much this has helped!

From today forward, I will not be posting any more updates. To anyone who is interested, I will be glad to PM. But I am tired. I want and NEED to see more sewing!

In closing, please remember, we are not given any guarantee on how long we have on this earth. Live each day as if it were your last! And tell everyone that matters to you how much they mean to you!


Nini


I will be praying. I can't imagine what you and the family are going through.
I would like everyone to do me a favor. You never know when someone isn't paying attention enough to be driving. Stressed out or distracted drivers are just as bad as drunk drivers in my opinion. Please think about Nini's friend and AKAsunshine when you are starting your car. Pray for them and also pray that God will keep you safe on the road. I am a strong believer in the power of prayer. Sometimes things happen and we don't understand. It is so hard but God is always in control even in bad times. He does have a purpose through our pain. My heart breaks for these families.:hug:
 
I went to a local fabric store today that's moving--everything is 75% off. This place just doesn't have sales or coupons. Mostly home decor fabrics, but I did find four really cute 100% cotton prints in a higher than usual threadcount than quilting muslin--I think they are for making bed sheets, but I'm sure that kind of smooth cotton would make comfy dresses. Got them for $2.50/yd.
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The fabric I fell in love with a few weeks ago, and went back today for the sale---$60/yd 100% silk! Dark red with gold embroidered flowers. It's just gorgeous, and I felt like Christmas getting it for $15/yd.
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I'm making curtains for my extra tall dining room window. This window has been bare for nearly 5 years b/c I can't find a curtain the right size. With fabric that valuable though, I'm not rushing into it--I don't dare mess anything up!!!

And just because....today was my little ballerina's first "recital":
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that fabric is beautiful! it's going to make beautiful curtains!

I have another update on the family I am praying for. Mom had an MRI yesterday. They now have a better understanding of her injuries. She has both punctured and collapsed lungs, broken collar bone, broken shoulder, crushed pelvis and several crushed vertebrae. She has a breathing tube inserted in her neck. They are trying to stabilizer her enough for surgery tomorrow to insert several metal rods to help support her body enough to be able to sit up. She has a less than 10% chance of ever walking again. As some of the swelling around the spinal column is going down, she has started having movements in one of her arms. There is no feeling below her chest.

Last night, the family made the difficult decision to tell her about her daughter.As this decision was made after my kids left, I don't know how she took it.

Funeral arrangements are still pending, but Helen's death will enable someone else to continue in their life. Some of her organs were donated.

This has been a particularly trying time on us all, but we are determined to rise above it and carry on.

Thank you so much for everyone's prayers and good wishes. I cannot begin to tell you how much this has helped!

From today forward, I will not be posting any more updates. To anyone who is interested, I will be glad to PM. But I am tired. I want and NEED to see more sewing!

In closing, please remember, we are not given any guarantee on how long we have on this earth. Live each day as if it were your last! And tell everyone that matters to you how much they mean to you!


Nini

I want you to know I'm still praying! I'm so sorry that this is such a difficult time for you all. A little sewing may do you good.

I will be praying. I can't imagine what you and the family are going through.
I would like everyone to do me a favor. You never know when someone isn't paying attention enough to be driving. Stressed out or distracted drivers are just as bad as drunk drivers in my opinion. Please think about Nini's friend and AKAsunshine when you are starting your car. Pray for them and also pray that God will keep you safe on the road. I am a strong believer in the power of prayer. Sometimes things happen and we don't understand. It is so hard but God is always in control even in bad times. He does have a purpose through our pain. My heart breaks for these families.:hug:

I know that this has been an eye opener for me! I don't text and drive, but I do talk on my cell phone. I've never really thought of it as dangerous. Though we don't know that this was the cause of the accident, I am now going to make a real effort to break the habit of driving and talking on my cell. Just as an effort to make my driving the safest that it can be.
 

I have another update on the family I am praying for. Mom had an MRI yesterday. They now have a better understanding of her injuries. She has both punctured and collapsed lungs, broken collar bone, broken shoulder, crushed pelvis and several crushed vertebrae. She has a breathing tube inserted in her neck. They are trying to stabilizer her enough for surgery tomorrow to insert several metal rods to help support her body enough to be able to sit up. She has a less than 10% chance of ever walking again. As some of the swelling around the spinal column is going down, she has started having movements in one of her arms. There is no feeling below her chest.

Last night, the family made the difficult decision to tell her about her daughter.As this decision was made after my kids left, I don't know how she took it.

Funeral arrangements are still pending, but Helen's death will enable someone else to continue in their life. Some of her organs were donated.

This has been a particularly trying time on us all, but we are determined to rise above it and carry on.

Thank you so much for everyone's prayers and good wishes. I cannot begin to tell you how much this has helped!

From today forward, I will not be posting any more updates. To anyone who is interested, I will be glad to PM. But I am tired. I want and NEED to see more sewing!

In closing, please remember, we are not given any guarantee on how long we have on this earth. Live each day as if it were your last! And tell everyone that matters to you how much they mean to you!


Nini

Prayers said for this family.

I will be praying. I can't imagine what you and the family are going through.
I would like everyone to do me a favor. You never know when someone isn't paying attention enough to be driving. Stressed out or distracted drivers are just as bad as drunk drivers in my opinion. Please think about Nini's friend and AKAsunshine when you are starting your car. Pray for them and also pray that God will keep you safe on the road. I am a strong believer in the power of prayer. Sometimes things happen and we don't understand. It is so hard but God is always in control even in bad times. He does have a purpose through our pain. My heart breaks for these families.:hug:

AMEN!

Prayers for Grace. You are right. She is too little to have to be saying blood work. :sad2:

Lots of wonderful outfits being posted! :goodvibes
 
I am still working on the hospital gown for Grace. I posted about this last week. I messed up two so far. I am now working on the third one. It is going to work because I am not throwing any more fabric away. :scared1: I have respect for the pattern makers. I need step by step instructions to sew. I can't fly by the seat of my pants. It took me forever to learn how to make a pillowcase dress. I threw away a few of those too. :scared1: I can make just about anything with a pattern. I have no problems with zippers or buttons. But the simple stuff :scared1:. I tried to fix the hospital gown pattern because the arms are too small. I added extra to the shoulders. That made the neckline V go down too far. I tried to round off the neck line on the next one and now the neck line is too wide.:scared1: I kinda pleated the neck line and stitched it into place like that. It works but not too well. Grace runs from me when she sees me coming with that darn gown for her to try on again. She says , " I no like it!!!" LOL! It will have to do. You would think I never sewed anything in my life. My niece called yesterday afternoon and asked me if she could hot glue fabric to make a costume. Her daughter , my great niece, needs a elf costume for Wedensday:scared1:. I told her to bring it to me and I will make it. It has no pattern just a picture. :scared1: She didn't even get the fabric until last night. It is felt so it SHOULD be easy. But remember it is me trying to make it and NO pattern. I also have to cook two meals today because I will be sleeping at the hospital with Grace tomorrow night so I have to have something for the other kids to eat while I am away. I have to pay bills today because I will not be getting out again for a while because Grace is having surgery. I am also babysitting so I will have two , two and a half year olds and a fourn month old to take care of today. I also need to finish the laundry before tomorrow. God help me get it all done .
 
Finished a raggie quilt for my MIL - hope she likes it - I was so worried when she told me the colors in her new living room were burghundy and light yellow - but thank goodnes Joann's had something to coordinate for me!

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this was how it ragged after 1 washing - do you think I should wash it 1 more time before sending it to her?
Wendy, it is beautiful! I really want one of those!!! They look so comfy cozy!

Hi guys! We are back from our cruise and boy do I need a vacation from my kids. The cruise was really fun but not so relaxing for good-ol-mom!!! I have to say, we decided we like the parks a little bit more than the cruise. Its just a lot of money for 6 people (we have to get 2 rooms) and not enough run-around-room for the kids. Anyway, here are some of the pics I captured! Way too many and they aren't great but here we go:

older kids in MK, day before we left for the cruise
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I'm missing a few more customs but will post later!!!

I love the customs you made!!! Your kids are so cute! I love all that red hair! And, I love the "real" pictures you got!! I think it makes them more interesting!

All this talk about IOA is making me miss it so much, we were there this time last year. Such beautiful christmas decorations, Seuss Landing is so pretty at christmas, I love all the colorful decorations. I love US anyway, everytime we have been there have been no crowds, last year, a few times we were the only ones in certain areas, like walking in Marvel Super Hero Island towards Toon Lagoon, nobody, and I mean nobody walking with us, Awesome !!! The longest wait we had for anything was about 10 minutes for the Simpsons ride. Here are a few pics from our trip last year.
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Christmas decorations around one of the stores. So pretty !!


Yes, that is me, I hardly ever let anyone take my pic but LOVE the grinch.
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My neice who went with us and the Grinch.
We had such a great time at Universal, they do have great counter service options there. We always stay on Disney property, but we take a cab to Universal, it is about 30.00 each way, but so worth it. Next year I think we are going to stay two days in a Univeral hotel and then move over to Disney. I am anxious to try Hard Rock Hotel or Portofino Bay.

I have to wonder why you don't let people take your picture?:confused3 You are very cute and take a nice picture!!! Come on, get in front of that camera once in awhile! I probably shouldn't admit this, but I like getting my picture taken!!! I really don't take a very good picture, but it doesn't stop me! If I took a nice picture like you, I would make people take my picture everywhere!! :thumbsup2

I went to a local fabric store today that's moving--everything is 75% off. This place just doesn't have sales or coupons. Mostly home decor fabrics, but I did find four really cute 100% cotton prints in a higher than usual threadcount than quilting muslin--I think they are for making bed sheets, but I'm sure that kind of smooth cotton
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I'm making curtains for my extra tall dining room window. This window has been bare for nearly 5 years b/c I can't find a curtain the right size. With fabric that valuable though, I'm not rushing into it--I don't dare mess anything up!!!

And just because....today was my little ballerina's first "recital":
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The fabric is GORGEOUS!!! Please post a picture when you get the curtains up!

Your little ballerina is SOOO cute!!! Arminda took ballet when she was about that size, she was probably a lot older than your daughter though, Arminda is a bit on the short side! I love little girls in their ballet outfits!! Just too cute!

Of course, when Arminda took ballet all she REALLY wanted to do was stare at herself in the gigantic mirror!!!! :rotfl: She would have been very happy to just stand there staring at herself for the entire hour!

:hug: Try to remember that all things have a purpose....even when we can't see them at the time. Good news is that they found it BEFORE her surgery and possibly saved her life :) My mom has thrombophlebitis (probably didn't spell that right). When I was born she spent 6 additional weeks in the hospital before she could come home. Her condition is very manageable now that she knows about it. Hopefully what Grace has will be easily managed as well.

Blessings & prayers, MMM

That had to be so awful for your Mom! I'm so sorry she had to go through that. I'm glad she is ok now. I always wonder if they could have found Heather's condition before she had the clots and if they could the "dark days" been avoided? I'm thankful every day that Heather is still with us.

OMG! I will pray that she never has to go through that again. I will also pray for you and yall mom. I am so glad she is ok now.

Thank you. :hug: Like I said up there ^ it was really a frightening time.

I can't thank yall enough for praying. I got good news this afternoon. Grace has an inhibitor. I probbably spelled that wrong. Anyway, that was the best possible outcome we were hoping for. The doctor cleared her for surgery and I have been running around like a crazy woman back to the hospital to get things set up for Wed. I was mad because the doctor ordered another PTT test today. It WILL come back too high because of the inhibitor. I think it will always be high. That means she takes long to clot but she isn't at risk for bleeding. I didn't let them draw the blood today. I am calling the doctor in the morning about that to see if it is necessary. If I have to I will take her back to draw blood tomorrow. The poor baby is only two and when we walked into the hospital she said , " I don't want blood work." She is very strong and it takes me and someone else to hold her down for someone to draw blood. Last winter she had such a bad bacterial infection in her throat that it dropped into her lungs and she was in the hospital for five days the week before Christmas. It was awful. She was so weak she could barely hold up her little head. She has had strep and tonsilitis at least 18 times in the two and a half years of life. The doctor said the tonsils have to come out ASAP. They are also huge she can barely breathe when she is sleeping. I am praying and believing that when we get this surgery behind us she will NOT be sick anymore. I don't want to go to the doctor at all next year except for well baby check ups. Thanks again for the support and prayers.:hug: I will let yall know how the surgery went. Please pray for Grace Wedensday that is when she is having surgery. I will post an update Thursday because she has to sleep in the hospital for 23 hours after surgery because of her age.

Oh thank goodness!!!! I am so glad that that is what it was! I really don't understand just what an inhibitor means, but I'm glad that's what it was! Is this something she will always have? And, I don't blame you on questioning the need for the blood draw! When Arminda was a baby, they wanted to know why she was so small. So, they did SO much bloodwork on her. It was really awful. Sometimes the..... shoot, can't think of the word, but I'm sure Heather would know, you know the one that takes the blood... was good, and sometimes I just had to tell them to stop and get someone else. I figured if one person missed twice, then I wasn't going to let them take a third try on my baby!

The results of the thousands of dollars of tests on my perfectly healthy, but small baby (who followed her own growth curve perfectly)???

The doctors made the brilliant conclusion that,

She's short.


She is too cute!!!


Oh goodness!! That is rough! My DD had 2 surgeries before she was 2, and it was so hard seeing her sick. Thankfully she was better after the surgeries. I hope your daughter is the same way. Poor baby!
I wouldn't have let them draw the blood again either. They tried to draw blood on my DD to test for high cholesterol at her last well visit, and couldn't get the vein and I made them stop. They must have thought I was the most horrible woman ever, but I wasn't about to let them torture my child over a test I thought was unnecessary. Does that blood condition run in your family? I know that I have a horrible time when they try to draw my blood, so I figure it is why it is the same with my DD.

I for one think you are a good Mommy for making them stop. Unless they had a good reason for doing that test, I don't see any reason for putting your baby through that.

I have another update on the family I am praying for. Mom had an MRI yesterday. They now have a better understanding of her injuries. She has both punctured and collapsed lungs, broken collar bone, broken shoulder, crushed pelvis and several crushed vertebrae. She has a breathing tube inserted in her neck. They are trying to stabilizer her enough for surgery tomorrow to insert several metal rods to help support her body enough to be able to sit up. She has a less than 10% chance of ever walking again. As some of the swelling around the spinal column is going down, she has started having movements in one of her arms. There is no feeling below her chest.

Last night, the family made the difficult decision to tell her about her daughter.As this decision was made after my kids left, I don't know how she took it.

Funeral arrangements are still pending, but Helen's death will enable someone else to continue in their life. Some of her organs were donated.

This has been a particularly trying time on us all, but we are determined to rise above it and carry on.

Thank you so much for everyone's prayers and good wishes. I cannot begin to tell you how much this has helped!

From today forward, I will not be posting any more updates. To anyone who is interested, I will be glad to PM. But I am tired. I want and NEED to see more sewing!

In closing, please remember, we are not given any guarantee on how long we have on this earth. Live each day as if it were your last! And tell everyone that matters to you how much they mean to you!


Nini

Thank you for letting us know how she is Nini, and I hope you are ok. :hug:

I will be praying. I can't imagine what you and the family are going through.
I would like everyone to do me a favor. You never know when someone isn't paying attention enough to be driving. Stressed out or distracted drivers are just as bad as drunk drivers in my opinion. Please think about Nini's friend and AKAsunshine when you are starting your car. Pray for them and also pray that God will keep you safe on the road. I am a strong believer in the power of prayer. Sometimes things happen and we don't understand. It is so hard but God is always in control even in bad times. He does have a purpose through our pain. My heart breaks for these families.:hug:

Yes, very well said! I have noticed that the people that usually cut me off in traffic and the ones that almost rear end me are the ones that are talking on their cell phones. I would bet that they don't even notice what they have done most of the time. Talking on cell phones and driving is something that really makes me mad. I've heard that people text while driving too, which just flabergasts me! How could ANYONE possibly think they could drive while texting????

I would also urge everyone that if they GET a call from someone who is driving to tell them that you can't talk to them while they are driving. I know that's hard to do, but if eveyone started doing it, then the cell phone drives wouldn't have anyone to talk to!

And, I will make a better effort to concentrate on my driving as well. I know it's easy to get distracted even if you aren't talking on a phone.


I know that this has been an eye opener for me! I don't text and drive, but I do talk on my cell phone. I've never really thought of it as dangerous. Though we don't know that this was the cause of the accident, I am now going to make a real effort to break the habit of driving and talking on my cell. Just as an effort to make my driving the safest that it can be.

Good for you Shannon! We can't change our past behavior, but we can change what we do in the future. :hug:
 
Oh thank goodness!!!! I am so glad that that is what it was! I really don't understand just what an inhibitor means, but I'm glad that's what it was! Is this something she will always have? And, I don't blame you on questioning the need for the blood draw! When Arminda was a baby, they wanted to know why she was so small. So, they did SO much bloodwork on her. It was really awful. Sometimes the..... shoot, can't think of the word, but I'm sure Heather would know, you know the one that takes the blood... was good, and sometimes I just had to tell them to stop and get someone else. I figured if one person missed twice, then I wasn't going to let them take a third try on my baby!

The results of the thousands of dollars of tests on my perfectly healthy, but small baby (who followed her own growth curve perfectly)???

The doctors made the brilliant conclusion that,

She's short.




I for one think you are a good Mommy for making them stop. Unless they had a good reason for doing that test, I don't see any reason for putting your baby through that.


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Tjat is a brilliant conclusion! :lmao:
My littlest started having some problems when she was about 9 months old and we ended up in the emergency room when it first started during the night. Watching them draw blood and put her through all of those tests was awful and so scary. I'm tearing up just thinking about it. They drew her blood over and over again until I told my DH to do something - luckily he was in his police uniform while we were there so everyone was very nice to us. They kept not being able to find a vein so they would poke her over and over and then they would poke her in the foot becaause she was little and literally try to squeeze the blood out of her foot into the the tube. Then they would come back to us and say the blood clotted too fast and they needed to get some more. I would fianally have her clamed down or asleep and they would want me to wake her up. We told them to get a different technician, but it didn't help. finally we told them no more. That night was awful. we went throught a lot of scary days and tests with her after that but that night just seemed to be the worst - maybe b/c that's when it started. i'm not sure.

I learned after that experience wtih her being sick that you are your child's best advocate and you need to stand up for them and do whatever it takes to get them the best treatment, doctors, etc! it's okay to ask questions - it's our job as parents I think.
 
Yes, very well said! I have noticed that the people that usually cut me off in traffic and the ones that almost rear end me are the ones that are talking on their cell phones. I would bet that they don't even notice what they have done most of the time. Talking on cell phones and driving is something that really makes me mad. I've heard that people text while driving too, which just flabergasts me! How could ANYONE possibly think they could drive while texting????

I would also urge everyone that if they GET a call from someone who is driving to tell them that you can't talk to them while they are driving. I know that's hard to do, but if eveyone started doing it, then the cell phone drives wouldn't have anyone to talk to!

And, I will make a better effort to concentrate on my driving as well. I know it's easy to get distracted even if you aren't talking on a phone.

I really have to agree with Teresa on this point! It irks me to no end when I see someone driving and talking. I have a friend that will call me while she is driving and I have told her more then once that I would chat with her once she was home. She usually calls because she has a question but then just chats. And it isn't a question that couldn't wait. Most people know I how I feel on the subject and it upsets me when they laugh and say "I can drive and talk at the same time".

A little background because this hits very close to home for me but I have always felt the same way about cell phones! Anyways, Dallas and Lin were picking up my sewing furniture and had the neighbors truck. Someone pulled out in front of them, literally, right in front (on a highway with a speed limit of 65). I 100% believe if it wasn't for Dallas' carseat and them being in the truck that they would not be here today. You guessed it! She was talking on her cell phone! Not paying a bit of attention. Never even saw them!! I was about 45 minutes behind them and let me tell you how scary it is be stuck in traffic, have this feeling and finally pull up on an accident involving your family and having no idea where your child is!

This all happened right around the time Levi (AKSunshine's child) went to heaven. I literally cried for atleast 6 months every time I got in the car. Cried for Levi. Cried knowing how blessed I was and how quickly my life could have changed. Just cried. I know Levi is in a better place but it still breaks my heart! Levi had beautiful curly hair just like Dallas!
 
I know that this has been an eye opener for me! I don't text and drive, but I do talk on my cell phone. I've never really thought of it as dangerous. Though we don't know that this was the cause of the accident, I am now going to make a real effort to break the habit of driving and talking on my cell. Just as an effort to make my driving the safest that it can be.

Thank you Shannon! I know we can be distracted in other ways too! I am so glad I only have one child sometimes. I have been in cars with other's two kids and he fighting alone can be distracting!

Living in Atlanta I KNOW and have experienced going 70 miles an hour to suddenly going around a curve and without warning there being stopped traffic! It is amazing how it is suddenly just like BOOM! Stopped! I am sure it is like this other places but it seems to be like that alot here!
 
Levi's seat just wasn't enough, not while being tboned at 50 mph. Matt and I have always thought a vehicle that set up higher would have made a difference.
 
Texting while driving? Heck I can't even text sitting on the couch:lmao:

Shell was a firefighter/EMT for years and I shudder every time he starts talking about the "old days". The accidents he has responded to due to someone not paying attention:scared1:. Children not in carseats, people changing the song on the radio or trying to pick up something they dropped. People smoking, driving and talking on a cell phone:confused3. All it takes is a second to change a life forever.

Aksunshine, I cannot tell you the number of times I have thought of Levi and your family. You are often in our prayers.:hug:
 
Thank you Shannon! I know we can be distracted in other ways too! I am so glad I only have one child sometimes. I have been in cars with other's two kids and he fighting alone can be distracting!

Living in Atlanta I KNOW and have experienced going 70 miles an hour to suddenly going around a curve and without warning there being stopped traffic! It is amazing how it is suddenly just like BOOM! Stopped! I am sure it is like this other places but it seems to be like that alot here!

I used to live in Atlanta - many years ago. I remember that traffic! Perhaps that is why it's easy to become complacent - I live in a much smaller town now with relatively no traffic. I guess it really doesn't matter though. Life can change on a dime regardless of where you live.

Levi's seat just wasn't enough, not while being tboned at 50 mph. Matt and I have always thought a vehicle that set up higher would have made a difference.

I just wanted to give you a big (((((HUG)))))!
 
Tjat is a brilliant conclusion! :lmao:
My littlest started having some problems when she was about 9 months old and we ended up in the emergency room when it first started during the night. Watching them draw blood and put her through all of those tests was awful and so scary. I'm tearing up just thinking about it. They drew her blood over and over again until I told my DH to do something - luckily he was in his police uniform while we were there so everyone was very nice to us. They kept not being able to find a vein so they would poke her over and over and then they would poke her in the foot becaause she was little and literally try to squeeze the blood out of her foot into the the tube. Then they would come back to us and say the blood clotted too fast and they needed to get some more. I would fianally have her clamed down or asleep and they would want me to wake her up. We told them to get a different technician, but it didn't help. finally we told them no more. That night was awful. we went throught a lot of scary days and tests with her after that but that night just seemed to be the worst - maybe b/c that's when it started. i'm not sure.

I learned after that experience wtih her being sick that you are your child's best advocate and you need to stand up for them and do whatever it takes to get them the best treatment, doctors, etc! it's okay to ask questions - it's our job as parents I think.

I know, all those tests to find out "Hey, her parents are short MAYBE she's just SHORT!" They actually called her "failure to thrive" just because she was short. That term has become such a catchall in the medical world. It just bugs me! She was thriving, she was just small. She was well proportioned too, it wasn't that she was too skinny for her height, her percentiles on both were the same. It still bugs me to this day!

That must have been so frightening to go through with your daughter. You are right, it is our job to ask questions and make sure our kids are getting the best treatment possible!

I really have to agree with Teresa on this point! It irks me to no end when I see someone driving and talking. I have a friend that will call me while she is driving and I have told her more then once that I would chat with her once she was home. She usually calls because she has a question but then just chats. And it isn't a question that couldn't wait. Most people know I how I feel on the subject and it upsets me when they laugh and say "I can drive and talk at the same time".

A little background because this hits very close to home for me but I have always felt the same way about cell phones! Anyways, Dallas and Lin were picking up my sewing furniture and had the neighbors truck. Someone pulled out in front of them, literally, right in front (on a highway with a speed limit of 65). I 100% believe if it wasn't for Dallas' carseat and them being in the truck that they would not be here today. You guessed it! She was talking on her cell phone! Not paying a bit of attention. Never even saw them!! I was about 45 minutes behind them and let me tell you how scary it is be stuck in traffic, have this feeling and finally pull up on an accident involving your family and having no idea where your child is!

This all happened right around the time Levi (AKSunshine's child) went to heaven. I literally cried for atleast 6 months every time I got in the car. Cried for Levi. Cried knowing how blessed I was and how quickly my life could have changed. Just cried. I know Levi is in a better place but it still breaks my heart! Levi had beautiful curly hair just like Dallas!

Jessica, I know you've told me this story before, but it just makes me cry thinking about it. I can't even imagine what you were going through when that happened. I'm so glad you had Dallas secure in his carseat! :hug:

I am sure that if Lin had been able to somehow avoid the accident that lady would have NO clue that she had just cut him off. I have a feeling most people who think they can talk on the phone and drive think they are doing a great job. It's the rest of us that have to swerve or slam on our breaks to avoid them that really see how they drive.

Texting while driving? Heck I can't even text sitting on the couch:lmao:

Shell was a firefighter/EMT for years and I shudder every time he starts talking about the "old days". The accidents he has responded to due to someone not paying attention:scared1:. Children not in carseats, people changing the song on the radio or trying to pick up something they dropped. People smoking, driving and talking on a cell phone:confused3. All it takes is a second to change a life forever.

Aksunshine, I cannot tell you the number of times I have thought of Levi and your family. You are often in our prayers.:hug:

Heather's husband, Henry (he's a police officer) is having a hard time this week. He was on the scene of an accident involving a 16 year old girl on Friday. She didn't make it. I don't think she was on the phone or anything, but I can't imagine dealing with thins like that on a regular basis. It would be so hard. Things happen to quickly and then everything is changed.
 
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