on a serious note... please send prayers, positive vibes,

ixiedust: to Northern IL Univ - its being reported as many as 18 students have been shot. this school is app 45 min southwest of where I live
- and as it is close, we have friends whose kids go there - and my boys have friends that go there...
My boys are safe.... and probably are coming home this weeekend for a visit...
Lots of wedding angst, and its 9 months away!! I was figuring $200 a piece for wedding clothes (renting a tux could cost at least that) dh fainted when he realized a clothing bill of $1,000 was just a start!! (he keeps pestering me about planning a trip to Disney - knowing I want to go - but hello? WEDDING Expense...
*sigh...
Notice I didnt tell you to STAY AWAY - I saw that someone was purposfuly trying to entice you to get upset, and I truly prayed you would stay away - it serves you no purpose to post, know that no one can change who you are!! You are confident in your own skin - leave it be - and then put anyone on notice that PM's you, to leave you alone, or put them on ignore - right now, surround yourself with positive people, positive influences... and breath - Be Still and know I am God is one of my favorite Bible quotes... BE STILL... so hard to do isnt it? Take in peace... and BE STILL to feel the peace...
CHOCOLATE did someone say CHOCOLATE?? PICK ME PICK ME