Hi ladies (and 1 guy I think)

Can I join the fun? I've been lurking and then read UMA's trip report and saw many of your comments there and I knew I wanted to join in on the fun.
I'm Stephanie and I have tons of weight to lose but I'm working with baby steps here. First goal is to lose 13 more lbs and get back under 200. Once there I get to pick a new color for my hair - wavering between something reddish or just getting highlights again, probably will depend on how close it is to our March trip cause I love highlights in my disney pics. Hopefully I'll lose a few more lbs before March - 190 would make me smile - so I dig out the summer clothes from 2 years ago and not have to buy new stuff for vacation. Fast forward to next Oct and my 2nd anniversary back at disney and I'd like to be at 160-170, a weight my husband may have briefly seen (although I was in scale denial back then) right when we first started dating.
I like to talk so here's some more. I'm not on any plan. WW didn't really work out so well for me and I'm a carboholic so anything getting rid of those is out. I went to some fitness website and calculated how many calories I'm supposed to eat every day to maintain my weight and got 2200-2500 depending on if I think I'm sedentary or slightly active. Does that even sound right? I'm loosely keeping track of calories and shooting for approx 1800/day. This past week I've averaged that with the exception of yesterday - didn't plan on having pizza for dinner so had a big lunch. Now I know we'll finish the pizza today so I'm having a nice veggie salad for lunch to make room for the pizza. Exercise is the devil. Well maybe not, but finding time to exercise certainly is. So along with eating my real challenge is fitting some walking in 3x a week.
Okay I've blabbed enough. Hopefully none of you have minded.