Eventer98
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I am sure that Thanksgiving will be back at my house this year since there will be a new baby again--but depending on how it goes--we may boycott everyone form now until eternity.
Geez....I don't think I could handle that!!! Hats off to you!! I can only bite my tongue for so long..it's very hard for me. We'd like to go to Disney for T-giving some year for the same reasons as you!
That is so true! There are some real whackos out there. I recently left a family after close to 4 yrs. They simply outgrew me. It was a great job, I miss those kids! The family I am with now is only part time, by my choice. But they do at times treat me like a maid more than a nanny. She has me doing laundry every day I am there, 3 days per week. I am literally washing things 2-3 times a week. I only do the kids things, so I recognize the clothes. The same shorts and stuff are getting washed 3 times a week. It is like she has me doing it so she runs no risk of having to do it herself. She also works from home. She sits a few feet from me on her laptop all day, doing her 'work' and watching tv along side me when the baby is asleep. It is just weird, and I feel uncomfortable with her right next to me all day. Oh well...she pays me well for it. I am looking for another position, but it is hard. I love that I can bring along my own child when she is not in school though. It is really the best of both worlds I think. There are quite a few families that wont interview me because of that though
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Ha!! Been there. I will no longer take a position where the mother or father works from home. I have done it twice now. One family I worked for had the dad at home. His office was in the basement but one day I came in to find him clipping his TOENAILS on the living room rug and NOT picking up the pieces. GAG!!! He was sarcastic like me so I called him out on it but he just laughed. Nasty!!! I quit a job with a family a year ago b/c they were so rich they thought they were priviledged. She would be home 1-2 days a week and "nap" while I was there. I also had loads of laundry to do and it had to be folded a very specific and anal way. Also coats had to be hung up in the closet in order of kids with zippers zipped. One day she accused me of not doing this but it was actually the dad not doing it. Of course she didn't believe me. I had also asked the spoiled rotten 8 yo to start putting her laundry away and cleaning up dirty clothes that she left lay everywhere. The mom told me that Mia didn't have to do chores. I got out of there after 6 months. The family I am with now have never had a nanny before. When I offered to do the kids clothes she was so excited. I do them whenever I can..1-2 times a week. Last week I forgot to put them away on a Friday and told her I was sorry..they were still in the basket on the dryer. She laughed and said it was her job and I never have to be expected to do it. Wow!! That had never happened before. She could care less how I fold them too!


I think the only reason I could bring a future baby to work is b/c the 6yo will be in school all day starting this fall. Then I will only have two toddlers plus mine! (Knock on wood...don't want to jinx having a baby before I am pregnant!! lol)