My DD19 and I have been doing mother/daughter trips since she was 12 and some of your faves are also our faves. Cali Grill during fireworks was definitely a highlight when she was 16!
She is now there doing the DCP and I am going to visit her for the third time the first weekend of December so we've had time to try extra places. And so has she while she's been there.
Some faves of ours are Jiko (probably our favorite restaurant at Disney. The wild boar app is probably the best dish I've ever had at Disney. The food is that good!), Boma for both breakfast and dinner, Summer House in DS (she loves it here and also goes with her friends), Narcoossee's, Toledo (went in October as a family and it was great!), Beaches and Cream and LeCellier.
Upcoming trip we are giving Teppan Edo a try and repeating Jiko and Boma breakfast.
We've never done Space 220 but we have done Sanaa. We liked it but find Jiko and Boma much better.
Cake Bake was cute but overly priced, even by Disney standards. DD liked it more for the aesthetic and pictures. She said she'd like to go back with her girlfriends and get dressed up for brunch.