Hey, no flames from me! I had two cruises with rotations that had children with NO manners what so ever - want to talk about taking food off my plate, spitting, spilling drinks, kicking my leg, smearing food on their faces ---- age was around 7, old enough to know better and if you don't want to blame the child, then blame the parents who totally ignored their little darling so they could have quality time.
I am NOT the babysitter and I was very, very annoyed. When we have had other children (YOUNGER) who have had excellent manners and gracious parents who paid attention to their children at mealtime....well, like I said, no flames from me.
Sorry if I gave you the wrong impression with my comment - I AM not a big fan of children with poor manners!!!
Personally, most children would rather stay and play at the clubs, but Mom and Dad drag them to dinner, tired, cranky and definitely acting out. Is this fair???? Not to anyone.
But I do suggest that parents "book end" their little darlings, so that no other adult has to have a child sitting next to them. That's what we do with our son and he has very good manners - if he didn't, he would be excused from the table immediately.
We are so particular about having our "special servers" that we often get the "kiddie rotation" - but it's not always so bad, especially if you can make prior dining arrangements with some one who is also cruising on your ship - it does work well.
Rae