Did I Do The Right Thing (Work Related)

Originally posted by honeywolf7
As far as teamwork with the other clerks, our jobs are really completely separate/different so there is no real teamwork and only one of them was upset with me.

It doesn't matter if you and your coworkers work seperately or together. If they feel that you have "tattled" on them it will cause ill feelings in the office. Team work can also mean getting along with your coworkers and if you get to be known as someone who will run back to the boss at the drop of a hat to tell them something that was not your place to tell... then you will become a distruption in the team.
 
I thought in your original post you said you weren't sure you did the right thing.

Looks to me like a lot of people are telling you that you didn't and you just argue with them. It doesn't seem to me that you are unsure at all.

You did what you did and you think it was the right thing to do.

So, why did you ask the question?
 
As far as teamwork with the other clerks, our jobs are really completely separate/different so there is no real teamwork and only one of them was upset with me.

Teamwork has nothing to do with individual tasks and everything to do with how the group, as a whole, functions in the work environment. I am the only person in my department who does what I do yet we are a team of people working toward a common goal/objective. We work collaboratively and cooperatively. That is teamwork.

Now, to the original question. As a co-worker I would have been angry and hurt that you took my conversation with you and brought it to management. If I had wanted them to know how I felt I would have told them myself. Now potential, in their eyes, I am an employee who could be out looking for a new job because I'm nervous/unhappy/unsatisfied with how my current job is going. This will, in turn, affect how they deal with me. You have just placed me in a very awkward position with the potential to hurt my chances for getting better assignments or more responsibility. As a co-worker, I don't trust you any more.

As a manager, I wonder about your motives. You say your office is small and you are new there. You say you are just doing this until the new VP comes. I question why you felt it necessary to come to me with this information. I begin to question if this information was given to you in confidence and, if it was, I begin to question your ability to handle information within the company...information that might be confidential and have serious effects on the business. You will be working for a VP...you will have to deal with some fairly high level information that is not to be shared. Can I trust you with that? Now I'm uncertain.

Based on the information you told us, I'm going to assume you've been at this job maybe 2, possibly 3 months tops. You haven't been there long enough to gauge the office and the politics/undercurrents there. You've placed yourself in a very difficult position there by doing what you did. Listen to what the others are telling you and learn from this experience instead of arguing with them that you did the right thing.

Maybe it will work out for you. I suspect that it won't work out the way you thought it would. The best thing you can do now is be pleasant and polite, do your job, lay low and hope that it all blows over quickly. My experiences with small offices is that things take about 5 times longer to blow over because of the dynamics involved. Learn from this mistake and apply that knowledge going forward.
 

If you have to ask if what you did was right, then you know what you did was wrong. Unless of course this was your passive aggressive way of telling us about your new job and what a valuable employee you are, but I digress.

What you did is NOT team building. Hurting employee morale is the worst thing you can do. When morale is down, productivity goes down. And there is nothing management hates worse than a downturn in productivity. If your co-workers (who you now say aren't really your co-workers) have a concern, it is up to them to address it with their supervisor. It is not up to you to go and tattle on them. They confided in you and you stabbed them in the back. They will not forget it, and you now have a target on your back. I am guessing you aren't used to working in an office environment with a number of other employees?
 
Actually, I didn't figure it was exactly said in confidentiality considering we were in the office around other people when they said it....it just happened that the manager didn't hear it.
 
Actually, I didn't figure it was exactly said in confidentiality considering we were in the office around other people when they said it....it just happened that the manager didn't hear it.
O.....M....G....you cannot expect us to believe you really thought that. Don't worry though, I highly doubt any of your coworkers will be saying anything around you that they want to be kept in confidence anytime soon....
 
They said it in front of everyone who's not management (not only the clerks)....why would I have thought that it was said in confidence especially considering how loudly the person who said it talks? They're not exactly the most professional people in the world.
BTW, the owner of the company thanked me today and said I did exactly what he's hoping his employees will all do (not just do their jobs but point it out if a problem exists that he is not aware of.)
 
Originally posted by honeywolf7
They're not exactly the most professional people in the world.
Oh, But what you did by tattling is Professional.I think not.
 
Hmmmm...then why did you feel the need to tell the management? Why didn't you just wait for those people to talk to management themselves? Why didn't you tell them, "Hey, I'll talk to management about it" ? Sorry, but you went behind their backs and they know it.
They're not exactly the most professional people in the world.
As mentioned before, if you REALLY thought you did the right (aka, professional) thing, you would not be asking us if it was the right thing to do.
 
wow! The owner!!!

I think RMD needs to add a 4th star. :)
 
Well, since the President/Owner of the company thanked me I know I did the right thing.
 
I think if your coworkers wanted to speak to management, they would have approached him/her themselves. It was not your business to get the answers for them. I don't see how going to your boss helps you out in any way. I also think you went to your boss out of curiosity for YOUR situation, not theirs. You won't have to worry about such things anymore though. I'm sure they've already told coworkers about your act of "kindness" and nobody will confide in you again.
 
Originally posted by honeywolf7
Well, since the President/Owner of the company thanked me I know I did the right thing.

HOneywolf no offense, but this sounds so childish and immature.

I'm not Miss Cleo, but "IF" you thought you did the right thing YOU never would of asked the original question in the first place.
 
Originally posted by honeywolf7
Well, since the President/Owner of the company thanked me I know I did the right thing.

Are you serious? First, I highly doubt the President/Owner even knows the situation, but if you say so, fine. Either way this statement makes you sound like a lap dog.
 
We have Task Force meetings in our office where we bring items of concern to our managers.

Maybe you could offer to start your own Task Force? I think people would be reacting differently to this if you had mentioned to your co-workers, "Hey, why don't I just go ask the managers what's going on? I won't mention any names, but I'll bring up the topic and see what their response is." Then at least they would have been given the courtesy of a chance to ask you NOT to repeat the conversation.

You took it and ran with it, plain and simple.

If you thought you did a good thing, I agree with most others here, you wouldn't be asking this question on the DIS.

And if you're convinced you did the right thing, why ask us about it? :confused:
 
Well....since you won't answer the kids & hurricane question.......


What sort of company is this? How large etc?
 
Maybe you could offer to start your own Task Force? I think people would be reacting differently to this if you had mentioned to your co-workers, "Hey, why don't I just go ask the managers what's going on? I won't mention any names, but I'll bring up the topic and see what their response is." Then at least they would have been given the courtesy of a chance to ask you NOT to repeat the conversation.
Exactly...THAT is what I am talking about...that is leadership!
 
Your thread asks if you did the right thing. Do you really want our opinions? Sounds like you are just defending your actions. Since you asked, I think you did the wrong thing. If I were one of those coworkers, I would lose all respect for you.

Your job was to help them learn the program. If I were you, I'd be more concerned about your job being cut, even if you are the fastest typist in the office.
 












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