We bought SSR sight unseen and while I don't for a second regret joining DVC, I do very much regret buying at SSR. We toured it during our last visit and I just didn't care for it

No specific complaints, it just didn't do it for me. That said, we recently added on at VWL and I couldn't be happier. Looking back, I wish we had waited to make our initial purchase because I doubt I would have bought at SSR had I seen it beforehand, even with the incentives. I just can't see myself staying there that often.
Just something to think about, but I think you'll be happy with DVC no matter what you decide!
Jynohn