I still wouldn't say that we were rushed, maybe, but I was kind of unhappy with the way the cake cutting went.
We walked through the doors to the terrace and were immediately led around to the back of the cake table - I NEVER saw my cake from the front and have now only seen it in pictures. Once my pro pics come in, I'll finally be able to see the cake I spent so much time worrying about. That was a disappointment to me.
We cut, fed, kissed and then were led immediately into our first dance and then our parents dance with no time to even think in between. It was only after these things were done that I got a chance to even say hello or kiss anyone. Now I know that this happens a lot to wedding couples, regardless of their location, but it did seem like we were just part of a script they were following, and not in any way special, and that was kind of stinky.
Bob did not even get a piece of cake at all - and since it wasn't put in a fridge in our room, he didn't get to eat it later, either.
My biggest complaint of our day - and trust me, there were many - was that I really felt like a customer at any wedding "mill" anywhere. There really wasn't anything too magical about it - there was a bunch of staff (trust me, they weren't cast members - that would have required acting happy for us!) doing what they do every day, several times a day, as if ours was just another wedding. And maybe it was - for THEM. But it was my one and only, and even if it wasn't special for them, they should have at least tried to act as if it was. If they can't do that, they really need to be moved to another department - maybe one without public contact - especially brides!
Our pictures clearly show them looking bored or annoyed behind us as we're dancing - and if they couldn't do any better than those looks on their faces, they could have at least gotten out of the way of the camera. Now I'll have photographic evidence forever of just how much they didn't care about what was happening that morning.
I'm so glad to be married to Bob and that made the day wonderful and special but I am really finding that a lot of the Disney magic is gone for me since that day, and that makes me really sad.
Jennifer
