Last week DD asked if she was pitching. I said no. Her response was....Well, I guess you don't want to win today.


I like her confidence and competitiveness, but we had to have a long sit down about that thinking. Of course she's not completely wrong, but there's always someone better somewhere and others need an opportunity to develop. For reference, she is 3-1 as a starting pitcher this season. The others are 0-3 combined. And the game we lost, she fielded the ball that would have ended the game and made the play to first. The girl missed the ball, the other team scored 2 runs and we lost by 1. Try arguing her point when clearly you have no standing.


I think I made her understand she needs to support her team and help her teammates get better if she wants to continue to succeed.