I told my DMiL and DSiL about my upcoming trip to Disney World in January for the DDCC. Figured the DMiL was going to find out anyways, so might as well tell her. My DMiL and DSiL were both obviously surprised, and I could tell that my DMiL, while not upset, didn't approve of it. DSiL was happy for me. She was like, "A solo trip, nice." I told them both that I had talked to the DW about it first and got approval for the trip. I then reminded my DMiL by way of a story I told to my DSiL that my DW, took a trip to Ireland on a 2 hour notice about a year after we were married to meet up with a college friend of ours. When finishing up the story I looked at my DMiL and smiled. My DMiL said, "We did manage to get her on a plane to Ireland pretty quickly." And I responded with, "Yes you did." She's not dumb, my DMiL, so she caught what I did and, don't want to say "backed off" because that would indicate she was really mad, but she relaxed her position