GoHerd1028
<font color=red>DDC 172<br><font color=green>"Inse
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- Oct 9, 2007
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Sorry to hear that. I feel bad that theyre issuing warnings and taking down such posts here. I think their problem isn't that anyone is selling anything so much as its driving the conversations away from the community board. Theyre losing their traffic which is the same as losing customers in their monetizing model. Since Im currently booked on the same cruise as you, Im part of the same thread youre talking about. Its been open since Mach of this year yet has only 77 total posts right now. The last several cruise threads Ive been part of had conversations spread across thousands of posts by this point and that is whats scaring the folks that run the boards. They see that their community is dying.
Ive also joined the group out on the other site and for the majority of folks with the right personality; the natural extroverts who enjoy living their lives out loud, its a convenient and very easy environment for them to keep in touch with all their interests. But as a minority introvert, heres where that trend disables me
Over here I know who Im talking to and what their connection to me is. I also know that folks who aren't taking part or aren't interested generally dont even show up. Over there, most of the commentary on posts comes from an individual posters inner circle of closer friends and family and Im left feeling like Im rather intruding in their world instead of being part of a specific larger group. I read along with the groups Im part of over there, but I feel almost compelled not to add to the conversation because of the vast array of outside folks who Im unfamiliar with and who am pretty sure (in my mind) dont want me interfering in their private party. It frustrates me to the point of almost giving up.
Don't get frustrated and give up Rob! It's all good...Our cruise group is shaping up to be a great group of people. Glad you are going to be there for a DisDads meet up at Sea!