This will sound incredibly selfish, so hear me out. Your family - you, DW, children - is priority. It has taken me 12 years of marriage to convince DW of this and she is finally on board. After we married, we visited my parents and an aunt (seperate trips) a month before or after a holiday, when convenient for us. She thought it was horrible I didn't see them more. But, we spent the holidays at her divorced parents' different locations, driving to one house Christmas Eve and the other Christmas Day - always trying to just find time for us. One holiday, we went to her dad's sister's' house, and her dad didn't even show up. She was devastated, but it still took several years more. So, do what is best for your family first. If you can add in the extra time with parents, siblings, inlaws, etc then great. But, in my opinion, DW and my dds always come first. Good luck with whatever you decide.
Will be in Florida for a convention in Ft. Lauderdale in late April, heading up to WDW for a few days following that, staying at OKW. And the entire family will be heading down for a week during the blistering month of July. The boys will be treated to a concert in Orlando - The Legend of Zelda: Symphony of the Goddesses, and we're thinking of doing Hoop-Dee-Doo as a family, but not the parks. Should be a nice, relaxing week. We'll be at AKV over in Kidani, with a Savannah view. 
I'm so looking forward to it all!
