tmfranlk
Love hanging at the World with my sweet girls.
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This will be difficult for all involved. I suspect that the infant will need to be buried or cremated so that will be a whole other issue that will be popping up. It will be hard for Erin to talk to you and even to see you for a while as it will just be a reminder to her of what she lost. My SIL and I were due within a couple of weeks of each other when I had my miscarriage. I wasn't nearly as far along and I was able to get pregnant again almost immediately, but the emotions were some of the hardest that I've ever had to work through. My SIL commented after Colby was born that there was so many things that she had wanted to share with me about her pregnancy, but she felt like she couldn't because she knew it would remind me of what I had lost. While time makes things easier and I can't imagine myself without Colby, I sometimes wonder what if.
Thanks for your personal insights, Deb. It really helps me have a better understanding. I can't even imagine how hard this all must be and it's hard knowing that I'm not going to be able to help that at all, plus will probably make it harder. The best I can do is just offer what I can (probably mostly watching Kaylin and that kind of help), let those she best talks to handle that side and pray.