jackskellingtonsgirl
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Deb - Please tell Chris I am sorry he has to deal with that! And I am sorry you have to stand by while he deals with it. DH is in your same shoes.
Mom didn't call me on my birthday. I finally got worried and called her about 6 PM when we were on our way to dinner, and then she said "Happy Birthday". A few years ago she was trying to plan a trip to visit her sister (before she moved up there). She made some sort of really ugly comment about how she couldn't go over my birthday, and how that was such an inconvenience. I never said she couldn't be gone on my birthday.
It's not like she ever even remembers to call me on my birthday, so what difference would it make if she was out of town? She doesn't call DH on his birthday, she called the day AFTER our anniversary, she just seems really put out by things like that. The same way she seems put out by me asking her to visit with DS when she comes to town. She acts like it is just really inconvenient for her to work him in when she is SOOO busy with Ms. Selfish and Diva. She gives a big sigh and says she "guesses" she can see him, or she "will see" if she has time to see him.
So starting yesterday I have a new policy - no expectations, no disappointments.
Mom didn't call me on my birthday. I finally got worried and called her about 6 PM when we were on our way to dinner, and then she said "Happy Birthday". A few years ago she was trying to plan a trip to visit her sister (before she moved up there). She made some sort of really ugly comment about how she couldn't go over my birthday, and how that was such an inconvenience. I never said she couldn't be gone on my birthday.

So starting yesterday I have a new policy - no expectations, no disappointments.