I have a DD 8 who is a drama queen also. If DD knew how many times we laughed over her and then put on the serious face to handle it, she would be amazed. I think you handled it well.
Isn't THAT the truth!!! LOL It's when they mutter "b*tch" while storming off that I don't like. Geez, I have 2 teens now and 2 that will still turn into teens. This, too, shall pass!