I directed a center so I heard the honest responses to some of the gifts

My staff were ALWAYS appreciative of everything their parents gifted but many items were immediately donated to our thrift shop. Things like mugs, candles, ornaments, figurines, and body lotion get overwhelming....
They especially appreciate a handwritten note, maybe attached to the family photo Christmas card. They always hung them in their room for the rest of the year and for some teachers, those notes of appreciation got them through hard days.
And really... giftcards made the biggest difference. During the holidays especially, my staff were strapped for funds - early childhood education does not pay well - and they had families of their own to shop for. They loved GC's for fast food, so they could use them on lunch break to grab lunch, or places like Target/
Walmart. My infant room teachers often wore scrubs to work so parents would often pitch in money and buy them a GC to a scrub store. If $5/teacher is the budget, I promise that $5 to ChickfilA was better than $5 in lotion or candle.
(don't worry about the Pinterest moms! It makes a cute Instagram pic but that's about it

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