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[Kim89]

Well, last year an 11th grader asked me to prom, but I couldn't go...lol, hmm I wonder why (maybe it has to do with the fact that he is four years older than me ). I only had one "real" boyfriend though...we went out for 2 years until he moved

 

[Kiki]

Meg!! I haven't seen you post in forever!

Originally posted by WDWfanatic288
oh yes you do Maggie!

anyway...this seems like a good venting thread!

ok, so as long as this post is all about venting...

Let's see, um, I'm 15, I've never been out on a date, never have had a boyfriend (not like I need or want one), never been asked to dance at a dance, never been asked to homecoming or our 8th gr. dance thing. (Never.... my new favorite word )
It's not like I'm all sad and depressed that no one likes me ( pity-party *rolls eyes again* ) but it makes people happy to know that someone let their guard down to tell you that they like you, with a chance of getting some rejection.

And, a lot of girls are posting saying that no one has ever asked me out (myself included, but I think I scare away boys like Steph ) but if you're going to say boys are mean b/c they won't ask you out, but you don't want to be going out on a limb to ask them out, you're just as bad.

Ok, I'm done

 

[bubblemutant45]

exactly! i totally agree with kiki.
the problem is we're been brought up on the false idea that guys are the ones who make the first move. wrong! theyre just as freaked out about the whole thing as we are when they like someone. i wish we could all just get over ourselves and tell ppl how we feel about them. its such a waste of time to be goin around waiting for something to happen, and not letting ppl know how we feel and wut we think. seriously, wuts the worst thing that can happen? isnt finding out better than never knowing? life's too short for us not to do things bcuz we're emberessed. i know i dont want to look back on my life and say "i wish i had faced my fears".
of course - easier said than done. A LOT easier said then done

 

[lucky13]

I hate being old..well older than most of you (20, not a teen, but i seem to relate better to you guys than the CB, 1 becuase i just became 20 and 2, i am going to be a teacher of high school kids, so i can relate to that)

For the most part, guys are jerks, and i am guy. I hate to see a girl get hurt by a guy, she crys and then goes to her friends for support. She goes home and calls her best guy friend in the world and talks to him, "i cannot find the right one" and " why do i always get hurt"....You always get hurt becuase the right one, the one you are looking for is right in front of you....the right one is your friend who grew up with you and knows you and is there for you, that is who you want to be with, start hanging out with him, see how you should be treated, if it does not come into a relationship, then great, but now you know how a guy should act on a date, how she should pull out your chair, open doors for you and bring you flowers...most guys are jerks, when you get older, you will see that looks are not all that important. You will see that guys are "hott" on the inside...so i understand, you are still young, make mistakes, but keep in-mind the ones that care about you and have that stupid crushes on you but never let you know becuase they are you good friends and do not want to hurt the friendship, are the nice guys and the guys that will not lie...

And don't be scared to ask a guy out you like, more than likey he likes you too but does not what to ask becuase he thinks you are going to say NO...Sorry about this crazy post about nothing, that is all..

 

[teh fish]

(sarcasm) oh my gosh. There's a girl that i've been watching for four years and I really like her, but I never talked to her and do you know what she did? She went out and got a boyfriend. Can you believe that?(/sarcasm).

The first words to someone gives them an opportunity to see who you are. If you don't say anything, how will they know the type of person you are?

Just because you like someone does not mean that the feeling is mutual. Is it someone's fault if they don't see you as a prospective boyfriend/girlfriend?

 

[DiSnEyGrL13]

I think I need to consider what Bubblemutant said more often.

 

[dancergirl]

Lucky13, I couldnt agree more than with what you said!! I think that alot of the time what you really want is right in front of you. I have been in the situation, got hurt by a guy, talked to my friend cause she was closest, then went straight to a guy friend, he gave the best advice! He told me about his girlfriend and asked for advice. After they broke up he came to me. Eventually we did go out, and we already knew alot about how we felt about dating. and it was much easier to talk about everything!!
My advice, dont look too hard...love will eventually come, it might not be right by your alarm clock, but it is by someones

 

[Meg]

<font color=blueviolet size=3>Well said lucky13 & Chani

I can relate to that as well. I was really good friends w/my current boyfriend for about 4 months before we actually started dating. We talked about everything & he was always there for me. When he told me he had feelings for me, I felt so bad because I didn't return them totally because I was afraid of getting hurt again like I had in the past... & hanging around w/him more & more kind of renewed my faith in guys... & taught me that not all guys are jerks...

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

OK there is a guy I like at work.
We went to school together before i went to private school.
Now he is working at Coony with me and his boss (my front desk manager) is his aunt.
But...I have no idea if he is single or if he likes me cuz he flirts with EVERYONE!

 

[jimmybop]

Originally posted by daughter_of_amid_chaos
I have no idea if he is single or if he likes me cuz he flirts with EVERYONE!

what type of guy would flirt with everyone??? (I would never admit it in person, but yesh.. i do). apparently one of my past g/f didnt like it that much, but she for the most part she just let it be, because thats the way I act. I mean, I didnt just go up to random girls and just flirt with them (i'm to shy to do things like that), I just do it to my female friends, and they know its just all fun.

and for the rest of the thread which i just read the whoooole way through hehehe.... Just dont sweat the petty things, just go through life and enjoy yourself, dont let yourself get upset because someone dosent see you one way. just go out and make tons and tons and tons of friends, an thats all that matters. If something happens, good good... if not.. don't sweat it, the day will come. and if nothing works out in high school... remember there is a whole new life when you get to college (and if not college, there is always the walt disney world college program... hehehehe)