Angel Ariel
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I understand what you're saying but WDW (and DL isn't far behind) is the most visited theme park in the world and with that comes certain things about it. It is a place where you'll have tens of thousands of people watching the fireworks all at once never mind trying to walk on Main Street, it is a place where crowds are plentiful, where loud noises occur sometimes suddenly without much warning, where heat and exhaustion easily set in and a number of other things. I hear what you're saying about respite but again it's the most visited theme park in the world. They logistically can only do so much to absolve the situations that cause issues for guests in general.
I think discussing resiliency is actually a good point (though the poster was speaking broadly) not because the person is trying to say people don't deserve to go and be happy and enjoy the parks (everyone deserves that) but because it is a place where you (general you) can be put in a lot of situations with many being unavoidable completely.
It's a bit of an inside joke on this Board to discuss vacation planning or being on vacation using Disney as a comparison and it's for good reasonWhen we were traipsing around Europe we were walking a lot but I would joke to my husband "well it's only half Disney days" if we only walked 12K steps (in reality we normally do 20K-30K steps per day at Disney). Many use the descriptor of Disney trips preparing for other trips because it makes other trips sometimes look quite easy. I really liked how that poster said WDW for them was a place to build confidence and reduce anxiety and I think it was looking at the situation in a positive light
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respectfully, no one here needs it explained to them how busy the parks are or all the sensory input. We are all Disney enthusiasts here, we are all aware of what the parks are like. To the bolded - my comments were never about Disney's offered accommodations, but specifically in response to the idea of intentionally using Disney to build resilience.
As I said, i am all for building resilience and independence. We work on that with DD every day. But as we all deserve a *vacation,* so does she. That doesn't mean there won't be situations where, like every single day of her life, she doesn't have to employ or practice skills. I'm not going into her needs, but she has high support needs. But there is a difference between experiencing them as they come as we go through our trip, and intentionally planning to use Disney to build a skill.
Again, any family is welcome to make that choice - that OT's recommendation may work well for some families. And. For others, there's enough moments of that every day already that they don't need to plan for more. Both approaches are supporting their child's needs.