Dear OP,
I am sorry for what you are going through. We are going through very similar circumstances. I am desparately looking for work and DH took a huge pay cut, and our insurance expenses have gone up. All that equals a huge decrease in monthly income. We are now looking at settlements and debating bankruptcy.
Anyone looking into bankruptcy is in dire conditions. There maybe a few people who do it and take it lightly. I have spent weeks of sleepless nights full of worry.
It is true that you will have to claim the unpaid amounts as income, which I guess is the governments way of penalizing....to make those who are trashing feel better....nothing is free. The settlement is really something to look at as far as getting your self back on track.
Lots of luck to you.
PS - while I'm here, does an employer have to know or do they find out if you are currently going thru bankruptcy?
I am sorry for what you are going through. We are going through very similar circumstances. I am desparately looking for work and DH took a huge pay cut, and our insurance expenses have gone up. All that equals a huge decrease in monthly income. We are now looking at settlements and debating bankruptcy.
Anyone looking into bankruptcy is in dire conditions. There maybe a few people who do it and take it lightly. I have spent weeks of sleepless nights full of worry.
It is true that you will have to claim the unpaid amounts as income, which I guess is the governments way of penalizing....to make those who are trashing feel better....nothing is free. The settlement is really something to look at as far as getting your self back on track.
Lots of luck to you.
PS - while I'm here, does an employer have to know or do they find out if you are currently going thru bankruptcy?

