kaytieeldr
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- Jun 11, 2005
"No, thank you" works even better (I'm reluctant to apologize when I'm not sorry).I don't mind them. I just say "sorry" and smile if I don't have cash on hand or don't want to.
"No, thank you" works even better (I'm reluctant to apologize when I'm not sorry).I don't mind them. I just say "sorry" and smile if I don't have cash on hand or don't want to.
"No, thank you" works even better (I'm reluctant to apologize when I'm not sorry).
I don't care if you flame me, but people are just trying to help other people. Just say no if you don't want to donate. You might feel differently if you or someone you loved could be helped by one of these charities.
That was my first thought but I didn't want to sound angry, you put it in a nice way
I hate being asked every time at the grocery store check-out if I want to dnate (and at the Kmart register, too, now that I think about it, and the PetCo - geez!) but I always just say, "not today, thanks." I kind of hate the kids selling stuff for scouts or school circling like vultures outside of stores - I try to use a door they are not congregating around, but if I have to pass them, I just say "no thanks." I heard some very rude teenagers outside my grocery, mocking people who said no, so I pretended to be on a cell phone and faced away from them as I walked out. Luckily, they were reeling some old lady in so I escaped without drawing their ire.
I totally agree with you. The worst is when they hound you at work. The United Way is my best example. I work at home but my boss and secretary are in the office. They only get dress down day on Friday if all of us in our group contribute to the United Way. Talk about blackmail. It's fine if that is the charity you choose but I believe that charity is a personal decision and not one to be forced into by your employer. I often wonder what the United Way does to force all these employers into cooperating? My husband gets it where he works too.
I don't care if you flame me, but people are just trying to help other people. Just say no if you don't want to donate. You might feel differently if you or someone you loved could be helped by one of these charities.
That was DD and I this weekend, although we didn't really do much besides stand at our table and wait for people to come to us. DD did dress up in the cookie costume but neither her nor I are really the shout "Buy cookies!" type.
I hate to be a meanie but I bet that on average I am being solicited for donations 3 to 4 times a week anymore.
The latest is the Senior Prom for the local High School. There is some kind of charity thing going on where you buy a pizza kit from Little Ceasers and then you can either specify a certain kid to get the credit, or let it go into some kind of general fund. There are 17 year olds all over the place trying to peddle cheap, bad tasting pizza. Well, I'm ALL FOR having kids go to their Senior Proms. But maybe -- just maybe -- if they just held something reasonable instead of a $150 ticket per head extravaganza, the kids would be able to afford their Senior Proms without having to fundraise. $300 per couple BEFORE the kids buy their clothes, flowers, limo, and dinner.
Again, I know I sound really pissy, but if they can't afford it, why should strangers have to "donate" for them to have it? We're not talking starving orphans or baby seals here. Teens having a big party is just not my idea of a "charity."
I go by one stoplight every weekday morning that is a frequent target. I hate having strangers outside my car windows shaking the cans at me.
That is utterly ridiculous!!!! Whatever happened to having a part time job in high school to fund your own freakin' prom??? Sorry, but I got honor roll grades, played sports, and worked part time. What has happened to the motivation level in some teens???? UGH!
I totally agree with you. The worst is when they hound you at work. The United Way is my best example. I work at home but my boss and secretary are in the office. They only get dress down day on Friday if all of us in our group contribute to the United Way. Talk about blackmail. It's fine if that is the charity you choose but I believe that charity is a personal decision and not one to be forced into by your employer. I often wonder what the United Way does to force all these employers into cooperating? My husband gets it where he works too.
My cousin is in girl scouts, so we buy cookies from her. Then there's a million people trying to get me to buy "Just one!".