O-kay this may seem to be a really silly question but here goes: I haven't been to WDW since 1982, so I know things have really chaged ALOT!!
but I am looking at the Birnbaum's offical guide to WDW(2004) and in the parking section it tells you where to go to park and then it says you need to choose between a ferry or the monorail to travel to the magic kingdom
has it always been that way? Because I don't remember doing that. So basically when you park your car(in handicap parking area) then you walk to an area to choose between a monorail or ferry!?! For some reason that really confuses my mind, Sorry this is silly! 
. Any tips because we are not staying onsite. Well, maybe one night we are because I am begging
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sounds like a great idea to me! 
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